"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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no chance?

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this is a girl from my class and exams are coming in about a week or so.

a lil whatsapp conversation..

me: hey i wanna take you out for dinner. you free this fri or sat?

her: Hmmm but i need to prepare for my exam :(
her: And i wanna acc my roommate
her: She's in bad mood recently

(1 hour later)

me: what happened? is she all right?
her: wow what's wrong with you? wait till 1 hour+ then reply me
me: paying attention in class :)
her: Nice act, you weren't listening.. you were day dreaming

Is it dead?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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aschillascanbe said:
this is a girl from my class and exams are coming in about a week or so.

a lil whatsapp conversation..

me: hey i wanna take you out for dinner. you free this fri or sat? JUST F CCUKING STOP ASKING THEM OUT TO DINNER FFS!!!!

her: Hmmm but i need to prepare for my exam :(
her: And i wanna acc my roommate
her: She's in bad mood recently

Is it dead?
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She will be sucking some guys **** who didnt ask her to dinner
 
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No counter offer, no interest.
How long had you been chatting to her? Did you do enough to build attraction and rapport?
 
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Greasy Pig said:
No counter offer, no interest.
How long had you been chatting to her? Did you do enough to build attraction and rapport?
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about 3 days? my good friend in class got she and her roommate to come clubbing with us on monday. i assume things were pretty smooth and that's why i asked her out this quick.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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aschillascanbe said:
about 3 days? my good friend in class got she and her roommate to come clubbing with us on monday. i assume things were pretty smooth and that's why i asked her out this quick.
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Very slim odds on this one. I agree with Greasy. With no counteroffer, it doesn't look good.

How did things go in the club? I'm assuming you danced with her.

If this girl kept her back to you the whole time so you could only grind her a$s, she's probably not attracted. A chick avoids face to face when she doesn't want to kiss a guy.
 
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It's "WhatsApp" right so it's free and you've nothing to lose, I'd call her out for being so stroppy and ask her if she's always like this or is it only because she's got an exam...

Either that or any excuse to use the ol' Zelda classic, "Well excuuuuuuse me princess! ;)"
 
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Yet another example of texting killing any chance.

This girl is a controlling shrew, trust me. Next.
 
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