"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No big deal, just looking for a response to a **** test

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SirFratserlot

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Don't take it seriously. I get told I'm cute and have delicious lips all the time and I just ignore them.
 
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BeDJ

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Well, you better take a another look.

Perfect setup for a date.
 

betheman

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Lil Magic said:
How would you guys respond if a girl told you "Mmm...you're cute, but I've seen better."

"are you one of those people who can see angels then?"
 

NewAndImproved

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"Cool" "Word" "Totally" etc...

Sometimes a longer witty response is good but I'm realizing more and more that one word/short responses are better.

If you really are the best of the best, insults don't faze you and neither do (backhanded) compliments.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Seems too eager to assert her own (fake) self worth if you ask me.

With a bit of indifference this is the sort of girl who will also tell you "omg I don't usually do that with a guy I've only known for X weeks" (or days).
 

old_skoolr

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you reply

"I can say the same about yourself"
 

Desire

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Just say "take one to know one" or "welcome to the club!" and grin.
 

Mr. Suave

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Doesn't matter, irrelevant, either ignore the comment or be like "Gee thanks, don't I feel special! :crackup: " and move on immediately.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Kbomb

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"7/10 since 1990"
 

gravityeyelids

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Like the blonde chick from Scarface says: "Don't toot your horn honey, you're not that good"
 

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1. What? Are there no mirrors at your place?
2. Yeah, well I guess you can't have a killer wit/a Mensa IQ/a massive penis (or all of the above) and good looks all at the same time.
3. This is great, we have so much in common!
4. Yeah, that's why I could only make it as a hand model.
5. If you're really lucky, you'll get to see me first thing in the morning. Then you're in for a real treat.
 
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