Lil Magic
Don Juan
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How would you guys respond if a girl told you "Mmm...you're cute, but I've seen better."
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
No big deal, just looking for a response to a **** test
- Thread starter Lil Magic
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SirFratserlot
Banned
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Don't take it seriously. I get told I'm cute and have delicious lips all the time and I just ignore them.
B
BeDJ
Guest
Well, you better take a another look.
Perfect setup for a date.
Perfect setup for a date.
NewAndImproved
Senior Don Juan
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"Cool" "Word" "Totally" etc...
Sometimes a longer witty response is good but I'm realizing more and more that one word/short responses are better.
If you really are the best of the best, insults don't faze you and neither do (backhanded) compliments.
Sometimes a longer witty response is good but I'm realizing more and more that one word/short responses are better.
If you really are the best of the best, insults don't faze you and neither do (backhanded) compliments.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Seems too eager to assert her own (fake) self worth if you ask me.
With a bit of indifference this is the sort of girl who will also tell you "omg I don't usually do that with a guy I've only known for X weeks" (or days).
With a bit of indifference this is the sort of girl who will also tell you "omg I don't usually do that with a guy I've only known for X weeks" (or days).
BadNews
Senior Don Juan
"Somebody is pretty full of themselves now aren't they?" (while laughing/chuckling)
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
you reply
"I can say the same about yourself"
"I can say the same about yourself"
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
gravityeyelids
Master Don Juan
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Like the blonde chick from Scarface says: "Don't toot your horn honey, you're not that good"
gravityeyelids
Master Don Juan
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"Right back at cha sugartits" haha
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
1. What? Are there no mirrors at your place?
2. Yeah, well I guess you can't have a killer wit/a Mensa IQ/a massive penis (or all of the above) and good looks all at the same time.
3. This is great, we have so much in common!
4. Yeah, that's why I could only make it as a hand model.
5. If you're really lucky, you'll get to see me first thing in the morning. Then you're in for a real treat.
2. Yeah, well I guess you can't have a killer wit/a Mensa IQ/a massive penis (or all of the above) and good looks all at the same time.
3. This is great, we have so much in common!
4. Yeah, that's why I could only make it as a hand model.
5. If you're really lucky, you'll get to see me first thing in the morning. Then you're in for a real treat.