"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No big deal, just looking for a response to a **** test

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SirFratserlot

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Don't take it seriously. I get told I'm cute and have delicious lips all the time and I just ignore them.
 
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BeDJ

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Well, you better take a another look.

Perfect setup for a date.
 

betheman

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Lil Magic said:
How would you guys respond if a girl told you "Mmm...you're cute, but I've seen better."

"are you one of those people who can see angels then?"
 

NewAndImproved

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"Cool" "Word" "Totally" etc...

Sometimes a longer witty response is good but I'm realizing more and more that one word/short responses are better.

If you really are the best of the best, insults don't faze you and neither do (backhanded) compliments.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Brosy

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Seems too eager to assert her own (fake) self worth if you ask me.

With a bit of indifference this is the sort of girl who will also tell you "omg I don't usually do that with a guy I've only known for X weeks" (or days).
 

old_skoolr

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you reply

"I can say the same about yourself"
 

Desire

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Just say "take one to know one" or "welcome to the club!" and grin.
 

Mr. Suave

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Doesn't matter, irrelevant, either ignore the comment or be like "Gee thanks, don't I feel special! :crackup: " and move on immediately.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kbomb

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"7/10 since 1990"
 

gravityeyelids

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Like the blonde chick from Scarface says: "Don't toot your horn honey, you're not that good"
 

Greasy Pig

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1. What? Are there no mirrors at your place?
2. Yeah, well I guess you can't have a killer wit/a Mensa IQ/a massive penis (or all of the above) and good looks all at the same time.
3. This is great, we have so much in common!
4. Yeah, that's why I could only make it as a hand model.
5. If you're really lucky, you'll get to see me first thing in the morning. Then you're in for a real treat.
 
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