Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ketostix

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This is just an example of how childish and petty the female mind is. It's a common misconception that women are selective. They are just petty and picky because they can be and don't know an important thing from a trivial thing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Prod

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Yeah, it's a real alpha male thing to give a **** about petty little fashions like this. ketostix is spot on.
 

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Actually it is part of being an alpha male involves looking your best.
 

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fvck being alpha. This chick ain't even worth it.

don't let some chick tell you how to dress.

If she's turned off that easy then she's not meant to be

after all, who cares? once you guys jump in the sack, the tighy whites and everything else will come off anyway
 

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Zebedee said:
Actually it is part of being an alpha male involves looking your best.
There is a difference between looking good and subscribing to retarded fashion ideas that litter the minds of today's 18 yr. olds. A woman that would reject you based on a glimpse of your (normal looking) underwear is probably so f'n retarded she can't walk and chew gum at the same time. Not worth it.

P.S I don't even like white tighteys, but I sure as hell wouldn't hit the panic button if that happened to me and my underwear. OP handled it perfect.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Crimson Tide said:
had a date with a hb 8, everything went pretty good... until I bent over to grab something, revealing my waste line. she looked shocked and said "You don't wear boxers??"

I was kinda caught off guard and said "I wear what's comfortable." The rest of the date was kinda awkward.

anyway a day later I got a text saying "sorry I don't date guys who wear whitey tighties."

I said "ok lol"

I guess I learned my lesson.
The rest of the date was awkward or you were awkward? Did you let it stay that way or did you try to break that. Once it goes awkward you have to diffuse it. Because if you get riled up over a little comment over underwear, then yes she will disqualify you (and rightfully so, as well as justify her stereotypes of tightywhitey men). You have to always blast through those sorts of misconceptions, you have to be the coolest dude in TW's that she ever met.

Hoestly, you think brad pitt or hugh hefner gives a fvck what a chic thinks about his underwear? She's lucky just to be in the room.
 

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ketostix said:
This is just an example of how childish and petty the female mind is. It's a common misconception that women are selective. They are just petty and picky because they can be and don't know an important thing from a trivial thing.
Agreed. But apparently many of the guys on this thread are just as childish and petty.

Maybe I'm missing something here but isn't the idea to get yours and her underwear off as fast as possible? Anyone examining styles and brands is just too stupid to be having sex.

Thanks for a great laugh.
 

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Fa Sheezy...

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What a stupid b!tch.

The only lesson you need to learn is your better off without an idiot like that in your life.
4 R.E.A.L. D.O.E.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Prod said:
There is a difference between looking good and subscribing to retarded fashion ideas that litter the minds of today's 18 yr. olds. A woman that would reject you based on a glimpse of your (normal looking) underwear is probably so f'n retarded she can't walk and chew gum at the same time. Not worth it.

P.S I don't even like white tighteys, but I sure as hell wouldn't hit the panic button if that happened to me and my underwear. OP handled it perfect.

:up:
 

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alright, whiteytighteys don't fall under the jurisdiction of any of the "game" principles. They look retarded, they are for little kids, and they don't belong on any grown man. Fashionable to the end--that's looking good.

Besides, I wouldn't be that thrilled if some girl wore ridiculous granny panties. There's no sexiness to it. I don't think its weird at all that it killed her attraction.... maybe a little overboard, but hey, maybe it was just the deal breaker and she just wasn't that into you anyway.
 

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Firstly, I doubt that it was your underwear that turned her off. If she was attracted to you and you played your cards right, it would not have been a deal breaker. As for the text, you should have either replied to it with something funny, or better yet, with nothing at all.

Second, if you have an attractive body, she won't be turned off by tighty whities.
 

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Wanna know what to say to a girl that judges you on something this stupid? I mean, if you had skid marks on your tighty whities (which you should not be wearing) I could understand but this is what you say.


THE ODOR FROM YOUR VAGINA WAS OVERWHELMING THAT NIGHT. IT WAS NASTY, AND I DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING. I DIDN'T WANT TO EMBARRASS YOU. BUT THANKS FOR NOTICING MY UNDERWEAR AND POINTING IT OUT TO ME.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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