"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ketostix

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This is just an example of how childish and petty the female mind is. It's a common misconception that women are selective. They are just petty and picky because they can be and don't know an important thing from a trivial thing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Prod

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Yeah, it's a real alpha male thing to give a **** about petty little fashions like this. ketostix is spot on.
 

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Actually it is part of being an alpha male involves looking your best.
 

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fvck being alpha. This chick ain't even worth it.

don't let some chick tell you how to dress.

If she's turned off that easy then she's not meant to be

after all, who cares? once you guys jump in the sack, the tighy whites and everything else will come off anyway
 

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Zebedee said:
Actually it is part of being an alpha male involves looking your best.
There is a difference between looking good and subscribing to retarded fashion ideas that litter the minds of today's 18 yr. olds. A woman that would reject you based on a glimpse of your (normal looking) underwear is probably so f'n retarded she can't walk and chew gum at the same time. Not worth it.

P.S I don't even like white tighteys, but I sure as hell wouldn't hit the panic button if that happened to me and my underwear. OP handled it perfect.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Warrior74

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Crimson Tide said:
had a date with a hb 8, everything went pretty good... until I bent over to grab something, revealing my waste line. she looked shocked and said "You don't wear boxers??"

I was kinda caught off guard and said "I wear what's comfortable." The rest of the date was kinda awkward.

anyway a day later I got a text saying "sorry I don't date guys who wear whitey tighties."

I said "ok lol"

I guess I learned my lesson.
The rest of the date was awkward or you were awkward? Did you let it stay that way or did you try to break that. Once it goes awkward you have to diffuse it. Because if you get riled up over a little comment over underwear, then yes she will disqualify you (and rightfully so, as well as justify her stereotypes of tightywhitey men). You have to always blast through those sorts of misconceptions, you have to be the coolest dude in TW's that she ever met.

Hoestly, you think brad pitt or hugh hefner gives a fvck what a chic thinks about his underwear? She's lucky just to be in the room.
 

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ketostix said:
This is just an example of how childish and petty the female mind is. It's a common misconception that women are selective. They are just petty and picky because they can be and don't know an important thing from a trivial thing.
Agreed. But apparently many of the guys on this thread are just as childish and petty.

Maybe I'm missing something here but isn't the idea to get yours and her underwear off as fast as possible? Anyone examining styles and brands is just too stupid to be having sex.

Thanks for a great laugh.
 

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Fa Sheezy...

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What a stupid b!tch.

The only lesson you need to learn is your better off without an idiot like that in your life.
4 R.E.A.L. D.O.E.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Prod said:
There is a difference between looking good and subscribing to retarded fashion ideas that litter the minds of today's 18 yr. olds. A woman that would reject you based on a glimpse of your (normal looking) underwear is probably so f'n retarded she can't walk and chew gum at the same time. Not worth it.

P.S I don't even like white tighteys, but I sure as hell wouldn't hit the panic button if that happened to me and my underwear. OP handled it perfect.

:up:
 

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alright, whiteytighteys don't fall under the jurisdiction of any of the "game" principles. They look retarded, they are for little kids, and they don't belong on any grown man. Fashionable to the end--that's looking good.

Besides, I wouldn't be that thrilled if some girl wore ridiculous granny panties. There's no sexiness to it. I don't think its weird at all that it killed her attraction.... maybe a little overboard, but hey, maybe it was just the deal breaker and she just wasn't that into you anyway.
 

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Firstly, I doubt that it was your underwear that turned her off. If she was attracted to you and you played your cards right, it would not have been a deal breaker. As for the text, you should have either replied to it with something funny, or better yet, with nothing at all.

Second, if you have an attractive body, she won't be turned off by tighty whities.
 

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Wanna know what to say to a girl that judges you on something this stupid? I mean, if you had skid marks on your tighty whities (which you should not be wearing) I could understand but this is what you say.


THE ODOR FROM YOUR VAGINA WAS OVERWHELMING THAT NIGHT. IT WAS NASTY, AND I DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING. I DIDN'T WANT TO EMBARRASS YOU. BUT THANKS FOR NOTICING MY UNDERWEAR AND POINTING IT OUT TO ME.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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