"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Nipples

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My Gf wants to suck my nipples. It turns her on!!
But I don't like it.

She has been literally attacking me to get at my nipples...
At first it was all fun and games, but now I think she has some serious nipple issues.

What to do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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You don't like anything about it or just something she does while doing it? Speak to her about the specifics.
 

belividere

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lol.

my last ltr had a bit of a nipple thing too but never got as far as sucking them. Seems kind of strange to me.

On a side note I'm amazed by accurately girls can pinpoint a nipple. Is this just me or do girls have an uncanny ability to get a titty twister in without missing. And no my nipples are not large or obvious.
 

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Originally posted by Iago
My Gf wants to suck my nipples. It turns her on!!
But I don't like it.

She has been literally attacking me to get at my nipples...
At first it was all fun and games, but now I think she has some serious nipple issues.

What to do?
Dude, let her have her way with them. You might be one of those guys who's wired. My ex, 9 years ago started doing that, and I couldn't stand it at first, it tickled, etc. but then we discovered that I was very sensitive and able to get stimulated.

Haha, I won't get into a long discussion on getting your nipples sucked, not on this forum, many here might be uneasy about hearing about it, but I recommend you let her (and most importantly I recommend you try getting in to it), but first tell her you have some things you'd like to try on her. Once you get into it, youll be glad you did. As strange as that sounds. So if you won't let her, give me her phone number and I'd be glad to make her happy.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Iago
My Gf wants to suck my nipples. It turns her on!!
But I don't like it.

She has been literally attacking me to get at my nipples...
At first it was all fun and games, but now I think she has some serious nipple issues.

What to do?
Why don't you like it lol?

If she has a real nipple fetish she will probably dump you for not letting her play with them.
 

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Tell her that scientifically, a penis is nothing more than overgrown nipple. She might believe you if you're a good bullshyter.
 

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i love nipple play--mine are large. i had a girl who would pinch them while she perform other acts-- nice
 

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Very Interesting.

Your options: Do it for her, or don't.

My standpoint: Just take it like a sl.ut. and make her happy.

Reason: After all, she does suck your penis... so do her a favor.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I also likes some playful nipplery. Really, dude, you should be damn grateful. My ex wanted to give me the ol' proctology exam.
 

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Originally posted by Unregistered
I also likes some playful nipplery. Really, dude, you should be damn grateful. My ex wanted to give me the ol' proctology exam.
WHoooooooooooooooooooa. That calls for the donkey punch.:D
 

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I too didn't like a girl to play with my nipples because it tickled like hell. But it feels pretty good when they do it.

The one thing was my ex gf played with them so much one time that they were sore and I felt them all the time. It actually made it hard to sleep because it was like the nerves were stimulated all the time and I felt that same tickling sensation.

Crazy stuff.
 

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Originally posted by Unregistered
Tell her that scientifically, a penis is nothing more than overgrown nipple. She might believe you if you're a good bullshyter.

LOL!!!!
 

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Pierce youre nipples...youll love it then.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't touch play with my nipples....i'm not a chick

Also don't touch my ******* either.....it's an exit only......:cool:
 

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Originally posted by thefonz
Don't touch play with my nipples....i'm not a chick

Also don't touch my ******* either.....it's an exit only......:cool:
Somebody went downthere on you????????????????
 

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No, I'm just sayin is all....:down:
 
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