"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Francisco d'Anconia
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belividere
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my last ltr had a bit of a nipple thing too but never got as far as sucking them. Seems kind of strange to me.
On a side note I'm amazed by accurately girls can pinpoint a nipple. Is this just me or do girls have an uncanny ability to get a titty twister in without missing. And no my nipples are not large or obvious.
Gangster Of Love
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Dude, let her have her way with them. You might be one of those guys who's wired. My ex, 9 years ago started doing that, and I couldn't stand it at first, it tickled, etc. but then we discovered that I was very sensitive and able to get stimulated.
Haha, I won't get into a long discussion on getting your nipples sucked, not on this forum, many here might be uneasy about hearing about it, but I recommend you let her (and most importantly I recommend you try getting in to it), but first tell her you have some things you'd like to try on her. Once you get into it, youll be glad you did. As strange as that sounds. So if you won't let her, give me her phone number and I'd be glad to make her happy.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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The one thing was my ex gf played with them so much one time that they were sore and I felt them all the time. It actually made it hard to sleep because it was like the nerves were stimulated all the time and I felt that same tickling sensation.
Crazy stuff.
Aztec
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LOL!!!!
oakraiderz2
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
thefonz
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Also don't touch my ******* either.....it's an exit only......
spider_007
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Somebody went downthere on you????????????????Originally posted by thefonz
Don't touch play with my nipples....i'm not a chick
Also don't touch my ******* either.....it's an exit only......
thefonz
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