She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dude, let her have her way with them. You might be one of those guys who's wired. My ex, 9 years ago started doing that, and I couldn't stand it at first, it tickled, etc. but then we discovered that I was very sensitive and able to get stimulated.Originally posted by Iago
My Gf wants to suck my nipples. It turns her on!!
But I don't like it.
She has been literally attacking me to get at my nipples...
At first it was all fun and games, but now I think she has some serious nipple issues.
What to do?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why don't you like it lol?Originally posted by Iago
My Gf wants to suck my nipples. It turns her on!!
But I don't like it.
She has been literally attacking me to get at my nipples...
At first it was all fun and games, but now I think she has some serious nipple issues.
What to do?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
WHoooooooooooooooooooa. That calls for the donkey punch.Originally posted by Unregistered
I also likes some playful nipplery. Really, dude, you should be damn grateful. My ex wanted to give me the ol' proctology exam.
Originally posted by Unregistered
Tell her that scientifically, a penis is nothing more than overgrown nipple. She might believe you if you're a good bullshyter.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Somebody went downthere on you????????????????Originally posted by thefonz
Don't touch play with my nipples....i'm not a chick
Also don't touch my ******* either.....it's an exit only......![]()