"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Night at the Concert

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Dear All,

I need your savvy advices, I'll really appreciate.

I arranged a night to a pop concert in my city for Mid-October with a girl in which I'm interested.

Today she told me that she'll bring also one girl friend.

So all the things that I planned to do are in discussion now because there will be another person.

May you tell me some advice to deal with this situation?

Thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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1. she sees you only as a friend.
2. she likes you but is still not sure what type of guy you are so her friend is there just in case she things dont get uncomfortable.
 

Lost In Translation

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tell her when you invited her it was to help you scalp tickets out the front of concert as you are a part time ticket scalper

tell her you sold your ticket on e-bay for $200

tell her you cannot go. i bet she still goes with her friend.

is her friend a guy ?

cancel on here. tell her you got work / funeral on that day and you will be out of town.

did you offer to pay for ticket ?

have you already purchased the tickets ?

did she ask you before inviting her friend ? if not you need to realise she is disrespecting you.

i would arrange a date / drinks / at night, over the next few days to guage her interest level.

is she flakes out on your date, cancel the tickets. don't waste your time and MONEY on her. NEXT.


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Lost In Translation

well said mate.. agree with you totally
 

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Thank you for the advices.

I think that I'll try to arrange a meeting only with her before the day of the concert.

Another thing: I also would like to act, at the concert, as I would seduce her girl friend, to see her reaction.

Sounds good?

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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give it a shot if you feel its right. :D all the best mate.
 
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