"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Night at the Concert

jortisfi

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Dear All,

I need your savvy advices, I'll really appreciate.

I arranged a night to a pop concert in my city for Mid-October with a girl in which I'm interested.

Today she told me that she'll bring also one girl friend.

So all the things that I planned to do are in discussion now because there will be another person.

May you tell me some advice to deal with this situation?

Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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VictorK

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1. she sees you only as a friend.
2. she likes you but is still not sure what type of guy you are so her friend is there just in case she things dont get uncomfortable.
 

Lost In Translation

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tell her when you invited her it was to help you scalp tickets out the front of concert as you are a part time ticket scalper

tell her you sold your ticket on e-bay for $200

tell her you cannot go. i bet she still goes with her friend.

is her friend a guy ?

cancel on here. tell her you got work / funeral on that day and you will be out of town.

did you offer to pay for ticket ?

have you already purchased the tickets ?

did she ask you before inviting her friend ? if not you need to realise she is disrespecting you.

i would arrange a date / drinks / at night, over the next few days to guage her interest level.

is she flakes out on your date, cancel the tickets. don't waste your time and MONEY on her. NEXT.


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

jakeyboy

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Lost In Translation

well said mate.. agree with you totally
 

jortisfi

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Thank you for the advices.

I think that I'll try to arrange a meeting only with her before the day of the concert.

Another thing: I also would like to act, at the concert, as I would seduce her girl friend, to see her reaction.

Sounds good?

Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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give it a shot if you feel its right. :D all the best mate.
 
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