"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Night at the Concert

jortisfi

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Dear All,

I need your savvy advices, I'll really appreciate.

I arranged a night to a pop concert in my city for Mid-October with a girl in which I'm interested.

Today she told me that she'll bring also one girl friend.

So all the things that I planned to do are in discussion now because there will be another person.

May you tell me some advice to deal with this situation?

Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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VictorK

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1. she sees you only as a friend.
2. she likes you but is still not sure what type of guy you are so her friend is there just in case she things dont get uncomfortable.
 

Lost In Translation

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tell her when you invited her it was to help you scalp tickets out the front of concert as you are a part time ticket scalper

tell her you sold your ticket on e-bay for $200

tell her you cannot go. i bet she still goes with her friend.

is her friend a guy ?

cancel on here. tell her you got work / funeral on that day and you will be out of town.

did you offer to pay for ticket ?

have you already purchased the tickets ?

did she ask you before inviting her friend ? if not you need to realise she is disrespecting you.

i would arrange a date / drinks / at night, over the next few days to guage her interest level.

is she flakes out on your date, cancel the tickets. don't waste your time and MONEY on her. NEXT.


Lost In Translation

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Lost In Translation

well said mate.. agree with you totally
 

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Thank you for the advices.

I think that I'll try to arrange a meeting only with her before the day of the concert.

Another thing: I also would like to act, at the concert, as I would seduce her girl friend, to see her reaction.

Sounds good?

Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jakeyboy

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give it a shot if you feel its right. :D all the best mate.
 
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