nicksaiz65 Odyssey

[nicksaiz65]

1st minute.

Everyone who is trying to improve will face the struggle of the voices inside saying 'it's hard' or 'I don't wanna do this today'. Buy you, and I, and everyone else who wants to make it to the goals we set has to ignore those voices and make the choice to be great. You know when you're making excuses. You know when you're wasting time. Make the decision to be better than those things. It is hard. Anyone who says improvement isn't hard is lying to you. You're rewiring a part of you that's fundamental to your being. You have to stick to the plan and believe in the plan. The tortoise beats the hare. The tortoise is consistency. Even when you don't feel like it. Don't sprint when you feel like it and rest when you don't. Take steady small steps to reach your goals.

Make the choice the be great. Every second of the day. Thanks for the post, needed the reminder.

I like it bro. Great motivational speaker. After my exam I might have to give this whole video a watch.

I have his book, Can't Hurt Me on Audible as well. I need to finish The Dead Key first but I can't wait to start reading/listening.

 

[shouldbefun]

I think my clicking point was the whole texting for logistics thing that Red Pill advocates. I decided to ignore them on that and give this girl a ton of nonsexual attention to "get to know her." It blew up in my face spectacularly and she started just ignoring me. So I text 90% for logistics now and I don't validate women either. Then the rest of Red Pill just clicked, kind of.

That's what the Bad Boys do lol. Women complain all the time about guys not texting them back but the guys who aren't texting them all day are the ones fvcking them most of the time I've found.

I also like how Red Pill is brutally honest about how important looks are... which is why you need to lift and dress well.

I don't think you understand, you said it yourself "I gave this girl a ton of non sexual attention."

This is totally needy behavior. It has nothing to do with rp/nonrp. You can be a buff guy but have needy behavior. Curb this neediness. Text when you have a reason to text/you want to make her have a good moment with you. But the bulk is you have to do the work during when talking. I found this out and even MAX stated it.

Girls complain about bad boys not texting because the guys are just busy/not interested/playing games with those chicks.

 

[shouldbefun]

110% they will use you and fvck someone else. Its mandatory. Screw a white knight. They know nothing.

No one said you have to be a white knight. Go talk to a girl, and ask her out. Find her interest level and move on if its low. What is even a white knight in this situation?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

No one said you have to be a white knight. Go talk to a girl, and ask her out. Find her interest level and move on if its low. What is even a white knight in this situation?

Helping females without knowing them or their personality or integrity. It was mentioned to contrast redpill.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yeah man... I wish I could drop the act and just connect with women. But in this day and age if you're not constantly using Red Pill tactics you'll just be used for your attention/resources while she sexes the Bad Boy who ignores her. Which is why we need the Pill

Its not really an act. When you keep getting stung for going outside that viewpoint maybe its wise to adjust your lens.

 

[shouldbefun]

Redpill accounts for feminist programming. Women have been trained to USE the traditional gentleman and good man. The original man programming has been compromised, exploited, overrun.

Negative. Thats just a way for guys to feel special and elite. The problem why guys use redpill is because most of them are introverts, or/and socially conditioned to be nice. Extroverts never have had this problem, and probably never will. They could have been the traditional gentleman (which again what society wanted) and still be a **** to the other guy.

 

[nicksaiz65]

I don't think you understand, you said it yourself "I gave this girl a ton of non sexual attention."

This is totally needy behavior. It has nothing to do with rp/nonrp. You can be a buff guy but have needy behavior. Curb this neediness. Text when you have a reason to text/you want to make her have a good moment with you. But the bulk is you have to do the work during when talking. I found this out and even MAX stated it.

Girls complain about bad boys not texting because the guys are just busy/not interested/playing games with those chicks.

True, I suppose that the texting thing isn't necessarily a Red Pill tenet. But all over their subreddit I see "text for logistics, text for logistics, text for logistics." I now see why: to prevent overpursuing. You can flirt a bit over the phone I've found like Dr. Nerdlove advocates. But "getting to know her over the phone" simply doesn't work and all it does is validate the woman. She will soak up your nonsexual attention like a sponge and then flake on you when you ask for a date. Cause she already got the attention that she desired! You have to be a mysterious Alpha Male, even in the college age. You validate them by texting them all day, you're finished. I agree with you, you have to build Attraction in person. Dr. Nerdlove says that trying to build Attraction over text is an awful idea too. Hell, you'd be better off with a call. That's probably the single biggest improvement I've made to my Game this semester, tightening up my texting technique. I've fvcked girls only having their Snapchat as well.

TRP advocates serious lifting and fitness as well. They say lifting can solve a majority of your problems with both guys and girls. I'm just gonna have to be bodybuilder ripped one day, I'd love to see girls
friendzone/reject/ignore me or guys try to disrespect me if I were a waved up bodybuilder like I always wanted to be.

Out of curiosity, what exactly is it about Red Pill that turns you off from it? I'll admit myself that there is a lot of misogyny on there, due to guys in the Anger Phase. But I think their ideals are pretty damn solid if you wanna learn how to date hot(especially shallow) women.

By the way, that girl flaked today. I can understand cause it's finals week, but still. At least she texted me back. We'll hang out next semester, and I'll be in a better position to get her then anyways. LIFT LIFT LIFT LIFT, I have the whole summer to work on that too. Gives me more time to work on my composition passion also.

Additionally. I just took my Databases Final. I felt pretty decently prepared. Not 100% but definitely not the worst test I've taken either. I am 100% sure that I passed the class. I'd have to make less than a 13 on that test to fail the class lol. I'm hoping I made a B overall, we'll see what my grade turns out to be. It's a good thing I set myself up to pass by doing well on the homework. This summer though... I want to be a straight A student. And I'd love to take 4 classes if I could, but I'll settle for 3 if necessary. That's my challenge towards myself, and I feel that I can rise to that occasion given that I now have the proper resources to deal with life.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Negative. Thats just a way for guys to feel special and elite. The problem why guys use redpill is because most of them are introverts, or/and socially conditioned to be nice. Extroverts never have had this problem, and probably never will. They could have been the traditional gentleman (which again what society wanted) and still be a **** to the other guy.

Not at all. Alot has has changed in 20yrs. Alot of behaviors which were considered masculine had been taken advantage of. Plus it gives clarity to the womens imperative and womens nature.

I wouldnt imagine a red pill guy feeling more special. He will however be able to better guard his energy and his masculinity.

 

[allancc3]

By the way, that girl flaked today. I can understand cause it's finals week, but still. At least she texted me back. We'll hang out next semester, and I'll be in a better position to get her then anyways. LIFT LIFT LIFT LIFT...

Lifting will not raise your SMV. It will probably lower your SMV for hot girls if you are as dedicated as you seem. And you certainly cannot afford that.

Even though you are not ready to assess your smv realistically, the dating market is forcing you to, and you are not reading any of the signs properly. You are facing long years, even decades of frustration if you do not re-calibrate quickly.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Lifting will not raise your SMV. It will probably lower your SMV for hot girls if you are as dedicated as you seem. And you certainly cannot afford that.

Even though you are not ready to assess your smv realistically, the dating market is forcing you to, and you are not reading any of the signs properly. You are facing long years, even decades of frustration if you do not re-calibrate quickly.

Explain how getting fit and lifting LOWER smv?

 

[allancc3]

Explain how getting fit and lifting LOWER smv?

It's just observation of reality. Who are the hottest women dating? Who are hot women attracted to? It's just that simple. In every location I've ever lived in or visited, the vast majority of hot women are attracted to and are dating guys who have a 'normal' athletic build. Closer to a swimmer, and are generally repulsed by the bodybuilder physique.

Weightlifting is potentially good for your health, but some guys wreck their health consuming excess sh1t protein 24/7 or just by going too far in general. High calories are bad for your health generally speaking.

As far as nicksaiz, he's getting a reality check. I'm trying to facilitate the process for him. He doesn't like it, but it's good for him.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It's just observation of reality. Who are the hottest women dating? Who are hot women attracted to? It's just that simple. In every location I've ever lived in or visited, the vast majority of hot women are attracted to and are dating guys who have a 'normal' athletic build. Closer to a swimmer, and are generally repulsed by the bodybuilder physique.

Weightlifting is potentially good for your health, but some guys wreck their health consuming excess sh1t protein 24/7 or just by going too far in general. High calories are bad for your health generally speaking.

As far as nicksaiz, he's getting a reality check. I'm trying to facilitate the process for him. He doesn't like it, but it's good for him.

Male strippers lift. They are sized between nba pt guards and nfl d backs.

 

[allancc3]

Male strippers lift. They are sized between nba pt guards and nfl d backs.

A photo from 'Magic Mike' I believe. I don't know if most male strippers have this type of physique or not, but they look like they have more of a swimmer's build: lean and muscular, certainly not a bodybuilder's physique. They're probably still 'roiding anyway.

It's an open question as to whether the women who attend male stripper shows are hot or not. I'm guessing they're closer to average in looks. After all, they're paying to watch strippers and probably willing to pay for sex in many cases.

Male Strippers Open Up About Drugs, the Women They Meet, and the Roles They Play

There's some solid reasons to not take Viagra before dancing.

www.vice.com

 

[mrgoodstuff]

A photo from 'Magic Mike' I believe. I don't know if most male strippers have this type of physique or not, but they look like they have more of a swimmer's build: lean and muscular, certainly not a bodybuilder's physique. They're probably still 'roiding anyway.

It's an open question as to whether the women who attend male stripper shows are hot or not. I'm guessing they're closer to average in looks. After all, they're paying to watch strippers and probably willing to pay for sex in many cases.

Male Strippers Open Up About Drugs, the Women They Meet, and the Roles They Play

There's some solid reasons to not take Viagra before dancing.

www.vice.com

Definately not body builder size. But likr a sprinter or nfl d back.

 

[allancc3]

I know a lot of guys in the military who have very hot girlfriends and wives. Most have an average athletic build. More often than not, when I see a guy with a hot chick, he has a normal athletic build and of average height or close to it.

I don't doubt that male strippers get laid easily. But is it with hot women or is it with women in the 5-7 range?

 

[nicksaiz65]

Let me rephrase my statement. I'd want to look more like the Magic Mike dudes I suppose. Big enough to be imposing and intimidating, yet enough to increase my SMV to make attracting hot women way easier. Women are shallow: so it's make it way easier to pass that looks test and require less Game too.

I can't imagine that lifting wouldn't help. If lifting won't raise your SMV idk what will. You've never seen the ugly but super muscular dude with Game who still gets laid? It's just a significant boost imo.

I was under the impression that there's no such thing as too muscular. Girls like Alpha Makes, what's more Alpha than having huge muscles?

Just some thought for my future. Pook had a great article about this too, "What Every Skinny Guy Should Know"

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I know a lot of guys in the military who have very hot girlfriends and wives. Most have an average athletic build. More often than not, when I see a guy with a hot chick, he has a normal athletic build and of average height or close to it.

I don't doubt that male strippers get laid easily. But is it with hot women or is it with women in the 5-7 range?

Their clientele is 5-7s. Hot chicks actually dont like the guy hotter than them.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Their clientele is 5-7s. Hot chicks actually dont like the guy hotter than them.

Maybe it's best to not stress it, stay on my purpose, and just get buff like Pook did over time. More Looks/SMV would certainly help. For me, that's big muscles. I've seen so many girls drool over football dudes with big muscles, and openly talk about how much they want to fvck dudes who are as ripped as a bodybuilder(an aesthetic one, not a roided out monster.) So I'm just gonna keep doing this bodybuilding over the years, make that my goal and see where I get. That's the Red Pilled way.

By the way, a great Red Pilled aside: "It all means nothing until you sleep with her."

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Maybe it's best to not stress it, stay on my purpose, and just get buff like Pook did over time. More Looks/SMV would certainly help. I'm just gonna keep grinding until I get where I wanna be, not much else I can do.

By the way, a great Red Pilled aside: "It all means nothing until you sleep with her."

Yep. If shes not giving you puzzy it means nothing.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Yep. If shes not giving you puzzy it means nothing.

Even if she's the one who says she wants to hang out, it means nothing. Take it with a grain of salt. She could just be trying to get attention. Women can be very fickle/flaky I've found.

This will lessen up a bit as I raise my SMV I'm sure. All the more reason to be Red Pilled and Lift.