Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I like it bro. Great motivational speaker. After my exam I might have to give this whole video a watch.
I don't think you understand, you said it yourself "I gave this girl a ton of non sexual attention."
No one said you have to be a white knight. Go talk to a girl, and ask her out. Find her interest level and move on if its low. What is even a white knight in this situation?
Helping females without knowing them or their personality or integrity. It was mentioned to contrast redpill.
Its not really an act. When you keep getting stung for going outside that viewpoint maybe its wise to adjust your lens.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Negative. Thats just a way for guys to feel special and elite. The problem why guys use redpill is because most of them are introverts, or/and socially conditioned to be nice. Extroverts never have had this problem, and probably never will. They could have been the traditional gentleman (which again what society wanted) and still be a **** to the other guy.
True, I suppose that the texting thing isn't necessarily a Red Pill tenet. But all over their subreddit I see "text for logistics, text for logistics, text for logistics." I now see why: to prevent overpursuing. You can flirt a bit over the phone I've found like Dr. Nerdlove advocates. But "getting to know her over the phone" simply doesn't work and all it does is validate the woman. She will soak up your nonsexual attention like a sponge and then flake on you when you ask for a date. Cause she already got the attention that she desired! You have to be a mysterious Alpha Male, even in the college age. You validate them by texting them all day, you're finished. I agree with you, you have to build Attraction in person. Dr. Nerdlove says that trying to build Attraction over text is an awful idea too. Hell, you'd be better off with a call. That's probably the single biggest improvement I've made to my Game this semester, tightening up my texting technique. I've fvcked girls only having their Snapchat as well.
Not at all. Alot has has changed in 20yrs. Alot of behaviors which were considered masculine had been taken advantage of. Plus it gives clarity to the womens imperative and womens nature.
Lifting will not raise your SMV. It will probably lower your SMV for hot girls if you are as dedicated as you seem. And you certainly cannot afford that.
Explain how getting fit and lifting LOWER smv?
It's just observation of reality. Who are the hottest women dating? Who are hot women attracted to? It's just that simple. In every location I've ever lived in or visited, the vast majority of hot women are attracted to and are dating guys who have a 'normal' athletic build. Closer to a swimmer, and are generally repulsed by the bodybuilder physique.
Male strippers lift. They are sized between nba pt guards and nfl d backs.
A photo from 'Magic Mike' I believe. I don't know if most male strippers have this type of physique or not, but they look like they have more of a swimmer's build: lean and muscular, certainly not a bodybuilder's physique. They're probably still 'roiding anyway.
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Definately not body builder size. But likr a sprinter or nfl d back.A photo from 'Magic Mike' I believe. I don't know if most male strippers have this type of physique or not, but they look like they have more of a swimmer's build: lean and muscular, certainly not a bodybuilder's physique. They're probably still 'roiding anyway.
It's an open question as to whether the women who attend male stripper shows are hot or not. I'm guessing they're closer to average in looks. After all, they're paying to watch strippers and probably willing to pay for sex in many cases.
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There's some solid reasons to not take Viagra before dancing.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Their clientele is 5-7s. Hot chicks actually dont like the guy hotter than them.
Maybe it's best to not stress it, stay on my purpose, and just get buff like Pook did over time. More Looks/SMV would certainly help. For me, that's big muscles. I've seen so many girls drool over football dudes with big muscles, and openly talk about how much they want to fvck dudes who are as ripped as a bodybuilder(an aesthetic one, not a roided out monster.) So I'm just gonna keep doing this bodybuilding over the years, make that my goal and see where I get. That's the Red Pilled way.
Yep. If shes not giving you puzzy it means nothing.
Even if she's the one who says she wants to hang out, it means nothing. Take it with a grain of salt. She could just be trying to get attention. Women can be very fickle/flaky I've found.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
