back when i was young, before girls really interested me, my mom would always say how i should be polite. now in 10th grade however, its kind of working against me. any tips on how to break the "sort of" nice guy reputation around ppl who knew how i used to be?
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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there's nothing wrong with being nice.
right now, i'm trying to be nicer to people cause i get called a jerk a lot.
like you, i misunderstood at first what this site is trying to tell you.
you don't want to be mean, and treat people like they're under you. treat them with respect and most importantly respect yourself.
basically just don't be a pvssy.
right now, i'm trying to be nicer to people cause i get called a jerk a lot.
like you, i misunderstood at first what this site is trying to tell you.
you don't want to be mean, and treat people like they're under you. treat them with respect and most importantly respect yourself.
basically just don't be a pvssy.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I kinda know where you are coming from. I am a nice guy to, but I can get girls now sometimes. I notice that it's because I am more lively now then b4. Are you quiet type? If you are then girls won't know what to make of you. You just have to come out of your shell a bit.
foxtrot191
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Then I'd just say you have to flirt n stuff. Women are secretive and don't really give away who they like i've noticed.
lsu03 said:no, i talk a lot, well not a lot, but ppl surely know who i am. my class only has 35 ppl in it!!
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I have a class with 12 ppl in it
35 to a classroom is alot, unless you were being sarcastic
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.