back when i was young, before girls really interested me, my mom would always say how i should be polite. now in 10th grade however, its kind of working against me. any tips on how to break the "sort of" nice guy reputation around ppl who knew how i used to be?
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there's nothing wrong with being nice.
right now, i'm trying to be nicer to people cause i get called a jerk a lot.
like you, i misunderstood at first what this site is trying to tell you.
you don't want to be mean, and treat people like they're under you. treat them with respect and most importantly respect yourself.
basically just don't be a pvssy.
right now, i'm trying to be nicer to people cause i get called a jerk a lot.
like you, i misunderstood at first what this site is trying to tell you.
you don't want to be mean, and treat people like they're under you. treat them with respect and most importantly respect yourself.
basically just don't be a pvssy.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
foxtrot191
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I kinda know where you are coming from. I am a nice guy to, but I can get girls now sometimes. I notice that it's because I am more lively now then b4. Are you quiet type? If you are then girls won't know what to make of you. You just have to come out of your shell a bit.
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Then I'd just say you have to flirt n stuff. Women are secretive and don't really give away who they like i've noticed.
lsu03 said:no, i talk a lot, well not a lot, but ppl surely know who i am. my class only has 35 ppl in it!!
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I have a class with 12 ppl in it
35 to a classroom is alot, unless you were being sarcastic
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
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You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
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