I showed up early to the date. I brought her a box of heart shaped chocolates and flowers. I bought her dinner. Then at the end of the meal I asked her for sex and she refused even a kiss and left and called me a jerk. I'm such a nice guy. How can she call me a jerk?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Nice guy gets fvcked again
- Thread starter Eggysmith
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Tictac
Banned
You know that everything you did was wrong and nearly guaranteed to deliver you to exactly where it did.
But you did it all anyway.
This is masochism. Or it's a joke.
But you did it all anyway.
This is masochism. Or it's a joke.
salinechow
Senior Don Juan
Not real. It just cant be real.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Life is unfair deal with it. You need to improve both your inner game and outer game.
You need to consider it as a muscle as going to the gym. If you work on it enough you will get it. Look at Owen Cook he used to be the biggest nerd possible and is now considered one of the best pickup artists in existence.
Read the DJ Bible for inner game.
Read Roosh - Bang/Correy Wayne's book/Watch RSD youtube videos religiously.
RSD Julien Pimp and The Blueprint By Tyler Durden are also excellent you can buy them or download if you look hard enough.
Get plenty of experience at the same time.
You need to consider it as a muscle as going to the gym. If you work on it enough you will get it. Look at Owen Cook he used to be the biggest nerd possible and is now considered one of the best pickup artists in existence.
Read the DJ Bible for inner game.
Read Roosh - Bang/Correy Wayne's book/Watch RSD youtube videos religiously.
RSD Julien Pimp and The Blueprint By Tyler Durden are also excellent you can buy them or download if you look hard enough.
Get plenty of experience at the same time.
LuckyStrike88
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If this is a troll, good one. Textbook on how to fail miserably.
Biggest mistake was to ask her for sex specifically, firstly you tried to buy her. Then you ask for sex communicating that you only did all those things to get her into bed, also saying that you are not good enough on your own so you need to buy her.
If you do "nice" things in order to get something in return you aren't in fact a nice guy, but a weak jerk like she said.
Biggest mistake was to ask her for sex specifically, firstly you tried to buy her. Then you ask for sex communicating that you only did all those things to get her into bed, also saying that you are not good enough on your own so you need to buy her.
If you do "nice" things in order to get something in return you aren't in fact a nice guy, but a weak jerk like she said.
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Bokanovsky
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What kind of chocolates did you get? You should have bought an expensive Godiva set. Otherwise, she might think that she's selling herself too cheap...Eggysmith said:
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
:crackup: :crackup:LMFAO said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
It's Ninja.
sylvester the cat
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I once asked a girl for sex. She had just come round to dump me. I had an awful thought of her telling all my peers that we dated three months without me making moves to jump her bones once. She turned down my request of course. I then had another awful thought of her telling all my peers how I asked for sex.
Then I walked her home.
Then I walked her home.
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
The things I would say to you Ninja would get me banned......
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Heart-shaped boxes kill relationships! Rectangular boxes get mad pvssy, son. What? Russell Stover for the win. FTW
LuckyStrike88
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Girls don't like nice guys especially not frustrated ones, bad vibes bro.Eggysmith said:
Talking about fair, she does not owe you anything.
Februathyst
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Girls do like nice guys.LuckyStrike88 said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.