I showed up early to the date. I brought her a box of heart shaped chocolates and flowers. I bought her dinner. Then at the end of the meal I asked her for sex and she refused even a kiss and left and called me a jerk. I'm such a nice guy. How can she call me a jerk?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Nice guy gets fvcked again
- Thread starter Eggysmith
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Tictac
Banned
You know that everything you did was wrong and nearly guaranteed to deliver you to exactly where it did.
But you did it all anyway.
This is masochism. Or it's a joke.
But you did it all anyway.
This is masochism. Or it's a joke.
salinechow
Senior Don Juan
Not real. It just cant be real.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Life is unfair deal with it. You need to improve both your inner game and outer game.
You need to consider it as a muscle as going to the gym. If you work on it enough you will get it. Look at Owen Cook he used to be the biggest nerd possible and is now considered one of the best pickup artists in existence.
Read the DJ Bible for inner game.
Read Roosh - Bang/Correy Wayne's book/Watch RSD youtube videos religiously.
RSD Julien Pimp and The Blueprint By Tyler Durden are also excellent you can buy them or download if you look hard enough.
Get plenty of experience at the same time.
You need to consider it as a muscle as going to the gym. If you work on it enough you will get it. Look at Owen Cook he used to be the biggest nerd possible and is now considered one of the best pickup artists in existence.
Read the DJ Bible for inner game.
Read Roosh - Bang/Correy Wayne's book/Watch RSD youtube videos religiously.
RSD Julien Pimp and The Blueprint By Tyler Durden are also excellent you can buy them or download if you look hard enough.
Get plenty of experience at the same time.
LuckyStrike88
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If this is a troll, good one. Textbook on how to fail miserably.
Biggest mistake was to ask her for sex specifically, firstly you tried to buy her. Then you ask for sex communicating that you only did all those things to get her into bed, also saying that you are not good enough on your own so you need to buy her.
If you do "nice" things in order to get something in return you aren't in fact a nice guy, but a weak jerk like she said.
Biggest mistake was to ask her for sex specifically, firstly you tried to buy her. Then you ask for sex communicating that you only did all those things to get her into bed, also saying that you are not good enough on your own so you need to buy her.
If you do "nice" things in order to get something in return you aren't in fact a nice guy, but a weak jerk like she said.
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Bokanovsky
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What kind of chocolates did you get? You should have bought an expensive Godiva set. Otherwise, she might think that she's selling herself too cheap...Eggysmith said:
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
:crackup: :crackup:LMFAO said:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
It's Ninja.
sylvester the cat
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I once asked a girl for sex. She had just come round to dump me. I had an awful thought of her telling all my peers that we dated three months without me making moves to jump her bones once. She turned down my request of course. I then had another awful thought of her telling all my peers how I asked for sex.
Then I walked her home.
Then I walked her home.
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
The things I would say to you Ninja would get me banned......
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Heart-shaped boxes kill relationships! Rectangular boxes get mad pvssy, son. What? Russell Stover for the win. FTW
LuckyStrike88
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Girls don't like nice guys especially not frustrated ones, bad vibes bro.Eggysmith said:
Talking about fair, she does not owe you anything.
Februathyst
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Girls do like nice guys.LuckyStrike88 said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.