"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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prairiedog24

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Is there a definitive "read this first" thread floating around here? I didn't see a sticky. Some of the shoptalk is going over my head.

ATC, HB8, etc etc.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJ bible, bottom of the page. Read Pooks 15 lessons first.

A couple rules of thumb however: Dont post about trying to get ONE certain girl... Especially if you're 'friends.' You'll understand soon enough. If you have girl problems, Go Fvck Ten Other Women, to get the oneitis out of your head. Rule of thumb number two: If she shows interest, but flakes and makes excuses, she isnt really interested. Move on.

Read the dj bible, and dont put up; with any shyt from chicks. Good luck.
 
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Ah awesome. Thanks guys. I saw the DJ bible referenced once and couldn't find it. Staring me in the face the entire time.

If you have girl problems, Go Fvck Ten Other Women, to get the oneitis out of your head.
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haha... no, I don't have girl problems. I do have law school problems. But not girl problems. The former will by default create the illusion of the latter sometimes though. I'm here for general self-improvement and because I'm bored as *** sometimes.

On the flip side, I'm one of those guys who doesn't see anything manly in "ffing ten other women..." just to teach myself to get over something that will be quite useful down the line, but don't worry, I know what you mean. I'm just giving you crap. All about right place right time.

Again, thanks for the info.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I know that there is one that's available on the Venusian Arts website.

Some here to get you started off.

HB - Hot babe
LTR - long term relationship
FTC - false time constraint
k-close - kiss
#- close - gettin the #
F- close- pretty straight forward

Those are the main abrevs. I use.

I would recommend reading Mystery Method or Revelation to familiarize yourself with the terminology.

-Kevin
 
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