"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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prairiedog24

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Is there a definitive "read this first" thread floating around here? I didn't see a sticky. Some of the shoptalk is going over my head.

ATC, HB8, etc etc.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJ bible, bottom of the page. Read Pooks 15 lessons first.

A couple rules of thumb however: Dont post about trying to get ONE certain girl... Especially if you're 'friends.' You'll understand soon enough. If you have girl problems, Go Fvck Ten Other Women, to get the oneitis out of your head. Rule of thumb number two: If she shows interest, but flakes and makes excuses, she isnt really interested. Move on.

Read the dj bible, and dont put up; with any shyt from chicks. Good luck.
 

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Ah awesome. Thanks guys. I saw the DJ bible referenced once and couldn't find it. Staring me in the face the entire time.

If you have girl problems, Go Fvck Ten Other Women, to get the oneitis out of your head.
haha... no, I don't have girl problems. I do have law school problems. But not girl problems. The former will by default create the illusion of the latter sometimes though. I'm here for general self-improvement and because I'm bored as *** sometimes.

On the flip side, I'm one of those guys who doesn't see anything manly in "ffing ten other women..." just to teach myself to get over something that will be quite useful down the line, but don't worry, I know what you mean. I'm just giving you crap. All about right place right time.

Again, thanks for the info.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Kevin Feng

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I know that there is one that's available on the Venusian Arts website.

Some here to get you started off.

HB - Hot babe
LTR - long term relationship
FTC - false time constraint
k-close - kiss
#- close - gettin the #
F- close- pretty straight forward

Those are the main abrevs. I use.

I would recommend reading Mystery Method or Revelation to familiarize yourself with the terminology.

-Kevin
 
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