"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Newbie question...

prairiedog24

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Is there a definitive "read this first" thread floating around here? I didn't see a sticky. Some of the shoptalk is going over my head.

ATC, HB8, etc etc.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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horaholic

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DJ bible, bottom of the page. Read Pooks 15 lessons first.

A couple rules of thumb however: Dont post about trying to get ONE certain girl... Especially if you're 'friends.' You'll understand soon enough. If you have girl problems, Go Fvck Ten Other Women, to get the oneitis out of your head. Rule of thumb number two: If she shows interest, but flakes and makes excuses, she isnt really interested. Move on.

Read the dj bible, and dont put up; with any shyt from chicks. Good luck.
 

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Ah awesome. Thanks guys. I saw the DJ bible referenced once and couldn't find it. Staring me in the face the entire time.

If you have girl problems, Go Fvck Ten Other Women, to get the oneitis out of your head.
haha... no, I don't have girl problems. I do have law school problems. But not girl problems. The former will by default create the illusion of the latter sometimes though. I'm here for general self-improvement and because I'm bored as *** sometimes.

On the flip side, I'm one of those guys who doesn't see anything manly in "ffing ten other women..." just to teach myself to get over something that will be quite useful down the line, but don't worry, I know what you mean. I'm just giving you crap. All about right place right time.

Again, thanks for the info.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kevin Feng

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I know that there is one that's available on the Venusian Arts website.

Some here to get you started off.

HB - Hot babe
LTR - long term relationship
FTC - false time constraint
k-close - kiss
#- close - gettin the #
F- close- pretty straight forward

Those are the main abrevs. I use.

I would recommend reading Mystery Method or Revelation to familiarize yourself with the terminology.

-Kevin
 
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