"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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prairiedog24

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Is there a definitive "read this first" thread floating around here? I didn't see a sticky. Some of the shoptalk is going over my head.

ATC, HB8, etc etc.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJ bible, bottom of the page. Read Pooks 15 lessons first.

A couple rules of thumb however: Dont post about trying to get ONE certain girl... Especially if you're 'friends.' You'll understand soon enough. If you have girl problems, Go Fvck Ten Other Women, to get the oneitis out of your head. Rule of thumb number two: If she shows interest, but flakes and makes excuses, she isnt really interested. Move on.

Read the dj bible, and dont put up; with any shyt from chicks. Good luck.
 

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Ah awesome. Thanks guys. I saw the DJ bible referenced once and couldn't find it. Staring me in the face the entire time.

If you have girl problems, Go Fvck Ten Other Women, to get the oneitis out of your head.
haha... no, I don't have girl problems. I do have law school problems. But not girl problems. The former will by default create the illusion of the latter sometimes though. I'm here for general self-improvement and because I'm bored as *** sometimes.

On the flip side, I'm one of those guys who doesn't see anything manly in "ffing ten other women..." just to teach myself to get over something that will be quite useful down the line, but don't worry, I know what you mean. I'm just giving you crap. All about right place right time.

Again, thanks for the info.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kevin Feng

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I know that there is one that's available on the Venusian Arts website.

Some here to get you started off.

HB - Hot babe
LTR - long term relationship
FTC - false time constraint
k-close - kiss
#- close - gettin the #
F- close- pretty straight forward

Those are the main abrevs. I use.

I would recommend reading Mystery Method or Revelation to familiarize yourself with the terminology.

-Kevin
 
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