"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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New user here, Where do I start?

Alextheegreat

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Alright, I have come to a decision I need to become better with women since on my own I haven't been getting, well lucky. To describe my self, I am 18 years old, I am in college, I am 5'4", but I wear a nice button down shirt, tucked into my jeans with a belt. I walk in a confident manner(shoulder's back, chest out slightly) and I can look into the women eyes sometimes other times I just look away as we are passing. I post a picture on here, But I am groomed I have short hair that is spiked up, and I have a nice scented cologne which I don't over do it but make just right.

My questions are, where is the best place to start? I don't want to become that jerk, since I know being a jerk isn't what women want, its what the jerk showed, confident ect is what they get. I also don't say sorry, since people have told me that shows weakness. My approaching I don't look for IOI's which I read is like a smile, a touch, a double look ect. How do I look for thoses? I don't see much here and there once in awhile but who do I get a women to do that?

Thanks for all the help it is much appreciated, and yes these are a lot of questions.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sodbuster

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Find the link to DJ bible and read it. THEN you'll be able to ask questions intelligently. No disrespect meant, but the guys who know the most get tired of answering the same questions every month.
 

horaholic

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On the bottom of the page, or the link in my signature takes you to it. Start with the fifteen lessons, from Pook. It should be mandatory to read it before posting. And no, there are no magic lines either. its all about #1 make yourself a more attractive person, including being a REAL man who doesnt let chicks walk all over him. #2 growing a pair and approaching strange women.
 

Alextheegreat

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Ah, Thank you guys this has been a great help, I just finished week 1 and man I gotta say I haven't felt this good, well in like forever. I appreciate you two taking the time to post I have a million questions ha, but it will wait till I have completed my training.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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