New To the Single Life

[Lumpy]

Ok, here's my situation. I'm 27, getting a divorce from the woman I was with for the last 6 years. I spent the last 6 months couped up in my basement playing video games and drinking alot. I am getting over everything and am ready to get back in the game. The problem is, I have no idea where to start. Within the last month I've been trying to pick up women, but it's not working so well.


I tend to think I am a decent looking guy, a bit on the bigger side, but I am working on that (lost 30 pounds in the last 3 months, would like to lose another 30-50). This is the least I've weighed in 7 years. I think dress ok. I usually go out wearing nice jeans and a decent shirt, clean shaven, close haircut (every 4 weeks), keep the unibrow taken care of, and smell nice. I just have no luck. One of my problems is, I get really nervous and can't carry on a conversation for more than a few minutes.

Basically what I need is some advice. I don't do the whole "club" scene. I like go to neighborhood bars. The bars we go to have a nice selection ladies in them, they just don't ever look at me. What can I do to change this. I have alot of confidence in myself except when it comes to talking to women.

I know if they say no, it's not a big deal, but, I still can't do it.

 

[NewMan]

Firstly, re the DJ Bible - find the link on the bottom of the page.

after you have done that, come back and start asking questions.

 

[Lumpy]

Firstly, re the DJ Bible - find the link on the bottom of the page.

after you have done that, come back and start asking questions.

Link doesn't work. Know anywhere else it may be at?

 

[Lumpy]

Firstly, re the DJ Bible - find the link on the bottom of the page.

after you have done that, come back and start asking questions.

Link doesn't work. Know anywhere else it may be at?

 

[STR8UP]

Losing that extra 50 will do wonders, both for the looks you will get and the confidence boost which will bring more looks.

I'm a few weeks in and have dropped about 5 lbs. I want to drop another 4 by my birthday in a few weeks, and by the end of the year I want to be pretty well ripped.

I just have to lay off the vodka a bit.

 

[sodbuster]

My lawyer advised me to wait until after the divorce before hooking up[no ammunition for her] Unless you don't have anything to lose, you have bigger problems right now than no sex. Figure about a year from the divorce date before you are really ready for more than sex. Women are OK with just sex,you may not be[that will show up in your approach]