Hi.. im 15 years old.. i have been talking to a girl for about 2 years and there have been good times and bad times.. i am not nerdy or anything but her friends are very popular.. she is shy with boys but she is very popular among the girls... when i pay to much attention i believe she tries to get in control of the relationship.. i have not made out with her still but i kissed her... she has been the closest i have had to a girlfirend... many people have told me to stop talking to her because she has been a ***** sometimes... when i arrive a party her friends insist on me to go to her... she also has never made out with a guy... i want to learn PUA skills and id be willing to dedicate time to this.. i also need advice.. if anyone could help i would appreciate it
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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This is not about PUA. This is not about routines and tricks to get girls. This is about becoming FVCKING AWESOME and letting other people enjoy your presence.
How is she a b1tch?
This is what you need to do: You need to escalate your 'relationship' with her. Just make out already. It's all on you. You must lead.
Secondly, go for 3 other girls. It will solve 90% of your girl troubles.
How is she a b1tch?
This is what you need to do: You need to escalate your 'relationship' with her. Just make out already. It's all on you. You must lead.
Secondly, go for 3 other girls. It will solve 90% of your girl troubles.
LearningSlowly
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Nothing we can tell you will help you get this girl.
We can, however, help you improve yourself, so future girls might want you more.
Think long term, not short term.
We can, however, help you improve yourself, so future girls might want you more.
Think long term, not short term.
That would be great. I just want to learn to be better with girls. To learn skills that would help me in my future. But i dont know where to start. If you could reccommend me any book or source that i could read it would be great.LearningSlowly said:
That would be great. I just want to learn to be better with girls. To learn skills that would help me in my future. But i dont know where to start. If you could reccommend me any book or source that i could read it would be great.LearningSlowly said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That would be great. I just want to learn to be better with girls. To learn skills that would help me in my future. But i dont know where to start. If you could reccommend me any book or source that i could read it would be great.LearningSlowly said:
NorwegianDJ
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Download and watch "The Blueprint" from RSD
Check out the DJ Bible at the bottom of the page.
Download the "Book of Pook"
Read "Awaken the Giant Within"
Check out the DJ Bible at the bottom of the page.
Download the "Book of Pook"
Read "Awaken the Giant Within"
DanZy
Master Don Juan
Mention mystery again and I'll stab you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
NorwegianDJ
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You post a month later, asking which one to start with? I'd start with quitting the laziness and start making decisions for yourself.fonsi141 said:
BPH
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Step 1: Approach girls
Step 2: Get laid
Step 3: ???
Step 4: Profit
Step 2: Get laid
Step 3: ???
Step 4: Profit
Zutt
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I'm not supposed to be a partypooper for you but you can't game a girl who you already know.
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Prove it. I've disproved this so many times. Even the statement does not make sense.Zutt said:
I do not intend to be mean, please dont leave.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.