"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hi.. im 15 years old.. i have been talking to a girl for about 2 years and there have been good times and bad times.. i am not nerdy or anything but her friends are very popular.. she is shy with boys but she is very popular among the girls... when i pay to much attention i believe she tries to get in control of the relationship.. i have not made out with her still but i kissed her... she has been the closest i have had to a girlfirend... many people have told me to stop talking to her because she has been a ***** sometimes... when i arrive a party her friends insist on me to go to her... she also has never made out with a guy... i want to learn PUA skills and id be willing to dedicate time to this.. i also need advice.. if anyone could help i would appreciate it
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This is not about PUA. This is not about routines and tricks to get girls. This is about becoming FVCKING AWESOME and letting other people enjoy your presence.

How is she a b1tch?

This is what you need to do: You need to escalate your 'relationship' with her. Just make out already. It's all on you. You must lead.
Secondly, go for 3 other girls. It will solve 90% of your girl troubles.
 

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Nothing we can tell you will help you get this girl.

We can, however, help you improve yourself, so future girls might want you more.

Think long term, not short term.
 

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LearningSlowly said:
Nothing we can tell you will help you get this girl.

We can, however, help you improve yourself, so future girls might want you more.

Think long term, not short term.
That would be great. I just want to learn to be better with girls. To learn skills that would help me in my future. But i dont know where to start. If you could reccommend me any book or source that i could read it would be great.
 

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LearningSlowly said:
Nothing we can tell you will help you get this girl.

We can, however, help you improve yourself, so future girls might want you more.

Think long term, not short term.
That would be great. I just want to learn to be better with girls. To learn skills that would help me in my future. But i dont know where to start. If you could reccommend me any book or source that i could read it would be great.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LearningSlowly said:
Nothing we can tell you will help you get this girl.

We can, however, help you improve yourself, so future girls might want you more.

Think long term, not short term.
That would be great. I just want to learn to be better with girls. To learn skills that would help me in my future. But i dont know where to start. If you could reccommend me any book or source that i could read it would be great.
 

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Download and watch "The Blueprint" from RSD
Check out the DJ Bible at the bottom of the page.
Download the "Book of Pook"
Read "Awaken the Giant Within"
 

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which one should i read first ? i already read some of the DJ bible..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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fonsi141 said:
which one should i read first ? i already read some of the DJ bible..
You post a month later, asking which one to start with? I'd start with quitting the laziness and start making decisions for yourself.
 

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BPH said:
Step 1: Approach girls
Step 2: Get laid
Step 3: ???
Step 4: Profit
I want to go sarging sooo bad dude. I haven't been in weeks, and none of my wings are down right now. Random fact.
 

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Zutt said:
I'm not supposed to be a partypooper for you but you can't game a girl who you already know.
Prove it. I've disproved this so many times. Even the statement does not make sense.

I do not intend to be mean, please dont leave.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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