Hi.. im 15 years old.. i have been talking to a girl for about 2 years and there have been good times and bad times.. i am not nerdy or anything but her friends are very popular.. she is shy with boys but she is very popular among the girls... when i pay to much attention i believe she tries to get in control of the relationship.. i have not made out with her still but i kissed her... she has been the closest i have had to a girlfirend... many people have told me to stop talking to her because she has been a ***** sometimes... when i arrive a party her friends insist on me to go to her... she also has never made out with a guy... i want to learn PUA skills and id be willing to dedicate time to this.. i also need advice.. if anyone could help i would appreciate it
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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This is not about PUA. This is not about routines and tricks to get girls. This is about becoming FVCKING AWESOME and letting other people enjoy your presence.
How is she a b1tch?
This is what you need to do: You need to escalate your 'relationship' with her. Just make out already. It's all on you. You must lead.
Secondly, go for 3 other girls. It will solve 90% of your girl troubles.
How is she a b1tch?
This is what you need to do: You need to escalate your 'relationship' with her. Just make out already. It's all on you. You must lead.
Secondly, go for 3 other girls. It will solve 90% of your girl troubles.
LearningSlowly
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Nothing we can tell you will help you get this girl.
We can, however, help you improve yourself, so future girls might want you more.
Think long term, not short term.
We can, however, help you improve yourself, so future girls might want you more.
Think long term, not short term.
That would be great. I just want to learn to be better with girls. To learn skills that would help me in my future. But i dont know where to start. If you could reccommend me any book or source that i could read it would be great.LearningSlowly said:
That would be great. I just want to learn to be better with girls. To learn skills that would help me in my future. But i dont know where to start. If you could reccommend me any book or source that i could read it would be great.LearningSlowly said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That would be great. I just want to learn to be better with girls. To learn skills that would help me in my future. But i dont know where to start. If you could reccommend me any book or source that i could read it would be great.LearningSlowly said:
NorwegianDJ
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Download and watch "The Blueprint" from RSD
Check out the DJ Bible at the bottom of the page.
Download the "Book of Pook"
Read "Awaken the Giant Within"
Check out the DJ Bible at the bottom of the page.
Download the "Book of Pook"
Read "Awaken the Giant Within"
DanZy
Master Don Juan
Mention mystery again and I'll stab you.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
NorwegianDJ
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You post a month later, asking which one to start with? I'd start with quitting the laziness and start making decisions for yourself.fonsi141 said:
BPH
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Step 1: Approach girls
Step 2: Get laid
Step 3: ???
Step 4: Profit
Step 2: Get laid
Step 3: ???
Step 4: Profit
Zutt
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I'm not supposed to be a partypooper for you but you can't game a girl who you already know.
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Prove it. I've disproved this so many times. Even the statement does not make sense.Zutt said:
I do not intend to be mean, please dont leave.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.