"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hi.. im 15 years old.. i have been talking to a girl for about 2 years and there have been good times and bad times.. i am not nerdy or anything but her friends are very popular.. she is shy with boys but she is very popular among the girls... when i pay to much attention i believe she tries to get in control of the relationship.. i have not made out with her still but i kissed her... she has been the closest i have had to a girlfirend... many people have told me to stop talking to her because she has been a ***** sometimes... when i arrive a party her friends insist on me to go to her... she also has never made out with a guy... i want to learn PUA skills and id be willing to dedicate time to this.. i also need advice.. if anyone could help i would appreciate it
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NorwegianDJ

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This is not about PUA. This is not about routines and tricks to get girls. This is about becoming FVCKING AWESOME and letting other people enjoy your presence.

How is she a b1tch?

This is what you need to do: You need to escalate your 'relationship' with her. Just make out already. It's all on you. You must lead.
Secondly, go for 3 other girls. It will solve 90% of your girl troubles.
 

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Nothing we can tell you will help you get this girl.

We can, however, help you improve yourself, so future girls might want you more.

Think long term, not short term.
 

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LearningSlowly said:
Nothing we can tell you will help you get this girl.

We can, however, help you improve yourself, so future girls might want you more.

Think long term, not short term.
That would be great. I just want to learn to be better with girls. To learn skills that would help me in my future. But i dont know where to start. If you could reccommend me any book or source that i could read it would be great.
 

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LearningSlowly said:
Nothing we can tell you will help you get this girl.

We can, however, help you improve yourself, so future girls might want you more.

Think long term, not short term.
That would be great. I just want to learn to be better with girls. To learn skills that would help me in my future. But i dont know where to start. If you could reccommend me any book or source that i could read it would be great.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LearningSlowly said:
Nothing we can tell you will help you get this girl.

We can, however, help you improve yourself, so future girls might want you more.

Think long term, not short term.
That would be great. I just want to learn to be better with girls. To learn skills that would help me in my future. But i dont know where to start. If you could reccommend me any book or source that i could read it would be great.
 

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Download and watch "The Blueprint" from RSD
Check out the DJ Bible at the bottom of the page.
Download the "Book of Pook"
Read "Awaken the Giant Within"
 

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which one should i read first ? i already read some of the DJ bible..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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fonsi141 said:
which one should i read first ? i already read some of the DJ bible..
You post a month later, asking which one to start with? I'd start with quitting the laziness and start making decisions for yourself.
 

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BPH said:
Step 1: Approach girls
Step 2: Get laid
Step 3: ???
Step 4: Profit
I want to go sarging sooo bad dude. I haven't been in weeks, and none of my wings are down right now. Random fact.
 

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Zutt said:
I'm not supposed to be a partypooper for you but you can't game a girl who you already know.
Prove it. I've disproved this so many times. Even the statement does not make sense.

I do not intend to be mean, please dont leave.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

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