"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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New Times, New Plates.

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I just got promoted at work to a position more related to a career goal. I also found a more decent place to live for the same cost. And I have my 20 year high school reunion coming up.

Here are my current plates:

1. A coworker who I talked about in a previous thread. (See Just asked coworker to lunch)
2. Two new bartenders at my regular hangout bar, where my best friend is also a female bartender.
3. A fellow volunteer for a political campaign I am helping with. I have her cell number because she used it to call me for campaign purposes.

I intend to wait until I am back in town from my reunion for a new beginning before making any real moves.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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I just got promoted at work to a position more related to a career goal. I also found a more decent place to live for the same cost. And I have my 20 year high school reunion coming up.

Here are my current plates:

1. A coworker who I talked about in a previous thread. (See Just asked coworker to lunch)
Don't to it.

You're not a warrior like me. Its a bad ass idea in this #metoo era.

2. Two new bartenders at my regular hangout bar, where my best friend is also a female bartender.
Spin away but, note that, space cadets, hired guns, women in said professions waitress, bartender, activist, etc are terrible candidate. High kilk counts, STDs, herpes, worts

3. A fellow volunteer for a political campaign I am helping with. I have her cell number because she used it to call me for campaign purposes.
Be cool. All interaction is chill. David D. Two steps forward one step back.

I intend to wait until I am back in town from my reunion for a new beginning before making any real moves.
@ reunion "I had a crush on you for years."

You will thank me when skull ****ing disgusting sluts in the public bathroom because women are classy.
 

marmel75

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Have you actually been on any dates or banged any of these "plates"?
 
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