"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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New Times, New Plates.

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I just got promoted at work to a position more related to a career goal. I also found a more decent place to live for the same cost. And I have my 20 year high school reunion coming up.

Here are my current plates:

1. A coworker who I talked about in a previous thread. (See Just asked coworker to lunch)
2. Two new bartenders at my regular hangout bar, where my best friend is also a female bartender.
3. A fellow volunteer for a political campaign I am helping with. I have her cell number because she used it to call me for campaign purposes.

I intend to wait until I am back in town from my reunion for a new beginning before making any real moves.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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I just got promoted at work to a position more related to a career goal. I also found a more decent place to live for the same cost. And I have my 20 year high school reunion coming up.

Here are my current plates:

1. A coworker who I talked about in a previous thread. (See Just asked coworker to lunch)
Don't to it.

You're not a warrior like me. Its a bad ass idea in this #metoo era.

2. Two new bartenders at my regular hangout bar, where my best friend is also a female bartender.
Spin away but, note that, space cadets, hired guns, women in said professions waitress, bartender, activist, etc are terrible candidate. High kilk counts, STDs, herpes, worts

3. A fellow volunteer for a political campaign I am helping with. I have her cell number because she used it to call me for campaign purposes.
Be cool. All interaction is chill. David D. Two steps forward one step back.

I intend to wait until I am back in town from my reunion for a new beginning before making any real moves.
@ reunion "I had a crush on you for years."

You will thank me when skull ****ing disgusting sluts in the public bathroom because women are classy.
 

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Have you actually been on any dates or banged any of these "plates"?
 
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