I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I hate this mentality that some people have where if a Girl makes the smalest slip up they should NEXT her. Seriously, it's like a guy talks about how he's met a great girl and is going out, but she's playing hard to get and some people just shout NEXT. wtf. If you next a girl everytime she does something not according to you, you're going to end up with no one. There's a difference between cutting your losses in a relationship that is going nowhere and just giving up because you couldn't get sex straight away.Energizer said:I'd move on if you I was. The challenge is tempting, but unless you marry her you won't deflower her. Better cut your loses and move on to someone equally as hot and much easier.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
IMHO it's the way it should be if you get a good girl.slickaz said:but to be honest, correct me if im wrong: why do i feel like s3x is not my prime objective with this girl?? is that normal??
Because she got you all bamboozled.slickaz said:but to be honest, correct me if im wrong: why do i feel like s3x is not my prime objective with this girl?? is that normal??
This is just really stupid. Are you going to marry this girl? No? Then what the **** is the purpose of this thread.slickaz said:Thanks Captain J, appreciate the positive here.
Luke Skywalker: Thanks for that, for me it doesnt matter the number of girls ive bedded or how easy it is to wake up to a new chic everyday, its about finding quality over quantity. I like quality and i think this one is.
Real Supreme: yeh you've got me madd as fvk, my focus is ferocious! lol..no further comments from you?
For the rest of ya'll: Ive been blessed with the ability to make something good of my life, ive had success career wise and with my extra curricular activities. Women ive had plenty and i know i can pull a chic into bed with relative ease. I dont even drink nor do i need her drunk to pull. Ive had 3some's aplenty and all that dirty stuff..
BUT! what i REALLY look for is a challenge and i look for quality. if i find a chic, who IS quality, while she looks hot, she appreciates my ethics and never comes in the way of my friends or work. that always has a plus point over the s3x.
yes i know i may sound stupid saying im happy to give up s3x with a girl if she a good catch in every other way. but think about it, i have 2 other girls im seeing that im getting it from, who arent as worthy for my time as this chic.
theyre happy being my 2nd choice, and they both 8's looks wise and 5 character wise. but they give good head..
i can tell the chic in question has a wild side in bed, because she has that s3xual tension when we're makin out, she loves to rip stuff off n get ruff. and thats always a good thing because that means its only time before that breaks her wall from her end..
but to be honest, correct me if im wrong: why do i feel like s3x is not my prime objective with this girl?? is that normal??
i really disagree with this kinda mindset.TheRealSupreme said:This should read
Basically this female sold you a bill of goods. She spit her contract and you accepted it like a young huckle buck facinated by her looks.
WOW.
And why are you on this site again?
To the rest of the fellas here:
Let this guy serve as an example to you to never sell your balls over a females looks. Dont accept her contract make her accept yours or have the balls to walk away.
This guy sold his balls down the drain and everything that a DJ stands for over some looks that are only skin deep. And the personality thing? That lasts as long as they ain't married and then she will change.
She already cowed him and put him down in HER place so why should she even respect him after she gets what she wants.
I guarantee sex will be almost nonexistant and it will suck arse.
Who wants a life like that just cause the girl has good looks????
Who would even sell their future happiness over some looks? Probably a lot of you guys as this dude might do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How does one go about getting 3some's a plenty anyway? It's hard enough to get one.slickaz said:Thanks Captain J, appreciate the positive here.
Luke Skywalker: Thanks for that, for me it doesnt matter the number of girls ive bedded or how easy it is to wake up to a new chic everyday, its about finding quality over quantity. I like quality and i think this one is.
Real Supreme: yeh you've got me madd as fvk, my focus is ferocious! lol..no further comments from you?
For the rest of ya'll: Ive been blessed with the ability to make something good of my life, ive had success career wise and with my extra curricular activities. Women ive had plenty and i know i can pull a chic into bed with relative ease. I dont even drink nor do i need her drunk to pull. Ive had 3some's aplenty and all that dirty stuff..
BUT! what i REALLY look for is a challenge and i look for quality. if i find a chic, who IS quality, while she looks hot, she appreciates my ethics and never comes in the way of my friends or work. that always has a plus point over the s3x.
yes i know i may sound stupid saying im happy to give up s3x with a girl if she a good catch in every other way. but think about it, i have 2 other girls im seeing that im getting it from, who arent as worthy for my time as this chic.
theyre happy being my 2nd choice, and they both 8's looks wise and 5 character wise. but they give good head..
i can tell the chic in question has a wild side in bed, because she has that s3xual tension when we're makin out, she loves to rip stuff off n get ruff. and thats always a good thing because that means its only time before that breaks her wall from her end..
but to be honest, correct me if im wrong: why do i feel like s3x is not my prime objective with this girl?? is that normal??
Sounds like 2 possibilities. Either she's getting the d*ck elsewhere (meaning someone else is actually bringing out the lusty side of your girl) , OR she feels that you will not want her as much AFTER you get her p*ssy. You have two choices:slickaz said:I appreciate what she does because:
1. She cooks for me
2. she cleans for me
3. she buys me expensive stuff
4. she puts in time and effort into looking hot for me, eg shell ask me what im wearing that night so she can wear something to match, and she'll ask me what id like her to wear..ive never had that before..
5. she spends alot of money on me, she's very happy to pay for our date, buy me drinks etc. and its amazing to get that from a HB10.
the con: she doesnt wanna have sex uptil now
BUT!!
here is my solution. that im working towards.
in 15 days, she's booked a 5 day retreat for me and her at an expensive relaxation center. i think given 5 days with massages and oils i should be able to get past her wall..
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.