Ditched the hoody and went for a new look.
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Discuss.
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Discuss.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
New look, Comment.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Mr. Sarcasm
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Honestly, that looks like it's three sizes bigger on you...It's ok, I guess.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
jeffthechef
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i dont see anyone wearing jacket/suits at my school...but hey if it's normal wher eyou live..its fine..just get one more fitted
Yookiwooki
Don Juan
haha are you kidding? I wear a tux everyday at school!
Seriously though, that would probably look good if it fit. and smile!
Seriously though, that would probably look good if it fit. and smile!
Five To One
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What's so bad about popped collars?619joe said:For school?No man thats way too try-hard
Party?You better make sure you get a perfect size and PLEASE for the love of god do NOT pop up the collar ever
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Haha one google image search with "popped collar" explains perfectly
http://images.google.ca/images?clie...=en&q=popped collar&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=N&tab=wi
http://images.google.ca/images?clie...=en&q=popped collar&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=N&tab=wi
jeffthechef
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lmao..that google search was fukin hilarious
dont pop your collar...well unless you're cold...hypothermia/frostbite cold
i live in a warm place so we never wear those leather/fur jackets/sweaters but either way regular collar or jacket etc it's better if you don't
dont pop your collar...well unless you're cold...hypothermia/frostbite cold
i live in a warm place so we never wear those leather/fur jackets/sweaters but either way regular collar or jacket etc it's better if you don't
These guys look real cool:
http://www.ivygateblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/poppedcollars.jpg
http://www.ivygateblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/poppedcollars.jpg
Unless your 50 cent...jeffthechef said:lmao..that google search was fukin hilarious
dont pop your collar...well unless you're cold...hypothermia/frostbite cold
i live in a warm place so we never wear those leather/fur jackets/sweaters but either way regular collar or jacket etc it's better if you don't
Still questioning this.cky said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
jeffthechef
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lol cky...looks naruto/colonial/
idk man...it just doesnt work to me
idk man...it just doesnt work to me
ahah i laughed for like 20 min after seeing this:
http://concentratedawesome.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/popped-collars.jpg
http://concentratedawesome.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/popped-collars.jpg
DAmn thaks for the laugh!cky said:
can't see the first
You're welcome, that was me in March 2007.Groovy said:DAmn thaks for the laugh!
can't see the first
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.