Ditched the hoody and went for a new look.
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Discuss.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
New look, Comment.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mr. Sarcasm
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Honestly, that looks like it's three sizes bigger on you...It's ok, I guess.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
jeffthechef
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i dont see anyone wearing jacket/suits at my school...but hey if it's normal wher eyou live..its fine..just get one more fitted
Yookiwooki
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haha are you kidding? I wear a tux everyday at school!
Seriously though, that would probably look good if it fit. and smile!
Seriously though, that would probably look good if it fit. and smile!
Five To One
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What's so bad about popped collars?619joe said:For school?No man thats way too try-hard
Party?You better make sure you get a perfect size and PLEASE for the love of god do NOT pop up the collar ever
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Haha one google image search with "popped collar" explains perfectly
http://images.google.ca/images?clie...=en&q=popped collar&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=N&tab=wi
http://images.google.ca/images?clie...=en&q=popped collar&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=N&tab=wi
jeffthechef
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lmao..that google search was fukin hilarious
dont pop your collar...well unless you're cold...hypothermia/frostbite cold
i live in a warm place so we never wear those leather/fur jackets/sweaters but either way regular collar or jacket etc it's better if you don't
dont pop your collar...well unless you're cold...hypothermia/frostbite cold
i live in a warm place so we never wear those leather/fur jackets/sweaters but either way regular collar or jacket etc it's better if you don't
These guys look real cool:
http://www.ivygateblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/poppedcollars.jpg
http://www.ivygateblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/poppedcollars.jpg
Unless your 50 cent...jeffthechef said:lmao..that google search was fukin hilarious
dont pop your collar...well unless you're cold...hypothermia/frostbite cold
i live in a warm place so we never wear those leather/fur jackets/sweaters but either way regular collar or jacket etc it's better if you don't
Still questioning this.cky said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
jeffthechef
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lol cky...looks naruto/colonial/
idk man...it just doesnt work to me
idk man...it just doesnt work to me
ahah i laughed for like 20 min after seeing this:
http://concentratedawesome.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/popped-collars.jpg
http://concentratedawesome.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/popped-collars.jpg
DAmn thaks for the laugh!cky said:
can't see the first
You're welcome, that was me in March 2007.Groovy said:DAmn thaks for the laugh!
can't see the first
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.