Ditched the hoody and went for a new look.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
New look, Comment.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Mr. Sarcasm
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Honestly, that looks like it's three sizes bigger on you...It's ok, I guess.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
jeffthechef
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i dont see anyone wearing jacket/suits at my school...but hey if it's normal wher eyou live..its fine..just get one more fitted
Yookiwooki
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haha are you kidding? I wear a tux everyday at school!
Seriously though, that would probably look good if it fit. and smile!
Seriously though, that would probably look good if it fit. and smile!
Five To One
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What's so bad about popped collars?619joe said:For school?No man thats way too try-hard
Party?You better make sure you get a perfect size and PLEASE for the love of god do NOT pop up the collar ever
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Haha one google image search with "popped collar" explains perfectly
http://images.google.ca/images?clie...=en&q=popped collar&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=N&tab=wi
http://images.google.ca/images?clie...=en&q=popped collar&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=N&tab=wi
jeffthechef
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lmao..that google search was fukin hilarious
dont pop your collar...well unless you're cold...hypothermia/frostbite cold
i live in a warm place so we never wear those leather/fur jackets/sweaters but either way regular collar or jacket etc it's better if you don't
dont pop your collar...well unless you're cold...hypothermia/frostbite cold
i live in a warm place so we never wear those leather/fur jackets/sweaters but either way regular collar or jacket etc it's better if you don't
These guys look real cool:
http://www.ivygateblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/poppedcollars.jpg
http://www.ivygateblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/poppedcollars.jpg
Unless your 50 cent...jeffthechef said:lmao..that google search was fukin hilarious
dont pop your collar...well unless you're cold...hypothermia/frostbite cold
i live in a warm place so we never wear those leather/fur jackets/sweaters but either way regular collar or jacket etc it's better if you don't
Still questioning this.cky said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
jeffthechef
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lol cky...looks naruto/colonial/
idk man...it just doesnt work to me
idk man...it just doesnt work to me
ahah i laughed for like 20 min after seeing this:
http://concentratedawesome.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/popped-collars.jpg
http://concentratedawesome.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/popped-collars.jpg
DAmn thaks for the laugh!cky said:
can't see the first
You're welcome, that was me in March 2007.Groovy said:DAmn thaks for the laugh!
can't see the first
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.