Ditched the hoody and went for a new look.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Honestly, that looks like it's three sizes bigger on you...It's ok, I guess.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
jeffthechef
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i dont see anyone wearing jacket/suits at my school...but hey if it's normal wher eyou live..its fine..just get one more fitted
Yookiwooki
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haha are you kidding? I wear a tux everyday at school!
Seriously though, that would probably look good if it fit. and smile!
Seriously though, that would probably look good if it fit. and smile!
Five To One
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What's so bad about popped collars?619joe said:For school?No man thats way too try-hard
Party?You better make sure you get a perfect size and PLEASE for the love of god do NOT pop up the collar ever
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Haha one google image search with "popped collar" explains perfectly
http://images.google.ca/images?clie...=en&q=popped collar&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=N&tab=wi
http://images.google.ca/images?clie...=en&q=popped collar&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=N&tab=wi
jeffthechef
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lmao..that google search was fukin hilarious
dont pop your collar...well unless you're cold...hypothermia/frostbite cold
i live in a warm place so we never wear those leather/fur jackets/sweaters but either way regular collar or jacket etc it's better if you don't
dont pop your collar...well unless you're cold...hypothermia/frostbite cold
i live in a warm place so we never wear those leather/fur jackets/sweaters but either way regular collar or jacket etc it's better if you don't
These guys look real cool:
http://www.ivygateblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/poppedcollars.jpg
http://www.ivygateblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/poppedcollars.jpg
Unless your 50 cent...jeffthechef said:lmao..that google search was fukin hilarious
dont pop your collar...well unless you're cold...hypothermia/frostbite cold
i live in a warm place so we never wear those leather/fur jackets/sweaters but either way regular collar or jacket etc it's better if you don't
Still questioning this.cky said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
jeffthechef
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lol cky...looks naruto/colonial/
idk man...it just doesnt work to me
idk man...it just doesnt work to me
ahah i laughed for like 20 min after seeing this:
http://concentratedawesome.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/popped-collars.jpg
http://concentratedawesome.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/popped-collars.jpg
DAmn thaks for the laugh!cky said:
can't see the first
You're welcome, that was me in March 2007.Groovy said:DAmn thaks for the laugh!
can't see the first
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.