Just wanted to say hi to all here. I just joined the site after reading some posts for the last couple of days. I have just gotten out of a 2 .5 year relationship and also moved to a new city 1200 miles from home. Trying to figure out the best way for me to meet women between 19-26.. Since I don't know anyone at all.. Should I solo club it, try online or maybe a combo of both? Any Advise and pointers would be greatly appreciated. I also will try to help anyone here with my past experiences if I see anything I know about. Thanks in advance, Phrase
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earthshyne
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If there's a college or university in your town, consider taking a course. Not only will there be some fine wimmen, they'll actually be able to think and *gasp* even carry on a conversation.
I'd avoid clubs, myself. Too much desparation there. But it's worked for others. Depends on your comfort level, I suppose, but it's just not my style.
Tried Yoga classes? They're good places to meet some flexible wimmen. Better than regular fitness places because of the male-female ratio, because more wimmen are into yoga than men, hence better odds.
A lot depends on the area. I see your location is DC (which, I'm assuming, is District of Columbia) and I don't know anything about what's inside the Beltway... but the above are maybe some places to start.
I'd avoid clubs, myself. Too much desparation there. But it's worked for others. Depends on your comfort level, I suppose, but it's just not my style.
Tried Yoga classes? They're good places to meet some flexible wimmen. Better than regular fitness places because of the male-female ratio, because more wimmen are into yoga than men, hence better odds.
A lot depends on the area. I see your location is DC (which, I'm assuming, is District of Columbia) and I don't know anything about what's inside the Beltway... but the above are maybe some places to start.
Earth thanks alot of for the advice, these actually sound like some good ideas. Another thing I was wondering.. Has anyone tried taking entry level dance lessons.. Women to men ratio should be high? I haven't ever done that before but a woman at work mentioned? Any one tried this?
Comote are you talking about the free salsa dances they have like in Glen Burnie or around that area.. Good to know another that lives in DC.. How are the women here.. If you ever have time maybe we could chat some more on topics of this area.. I'm so friggin green here in the North..
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
mongoose01
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yoga is great place to meet women. introductory courses are cheap or free.
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Join a gym near a major university. Take spinning and/or aerobics classes.
DoubleA
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Phrase,
Whatd up? I'm in the DC area. If you need a VA rep to tell what's going here in southside. Give me a shout out.
If you're in DC you can take Salsa lessons at LuLu's in Dc on 18th St & M. It's on Tuesday night and the cost is five bucks.
Man, there are some really cool bars that provide a nice mixture of music and conversation. In Arlington, next weekend is the Shamrock Festival. Look it up and check it out. In a month or so the Spring Bar Crawl hits and tons I mean S$#Tloads of women will be there. It's all about how you want to go with it.
Whatd up? I'm in the DC area. If you need a VA rep to tell what's going here in southside. Give me a shout out.
If you're in DC you can take Salsa lessons at LuLu's in Dc on 18th St & M. It's on Tuesday night and the cost is five bucks.
Man, there are some really cool bars that provide a nice mixture of music and conversation. In Arlington, next weekend is the Shamrock Festival. Look it up and check it out. In a month or so the Spring Bar Crawl hits and tons I mean S$#Tloads of women will be there. It's all about how you want to go with it.