Just wanted to say hi to all here. I just joined the site after reading some posts for the last couple of days. I have just gotten out of a 2 .5 year relationship and also moved to a new city 1200 miles from home. Trying to figure out the best way for me to meet women between 19-26.. Since I don't know anyone at all.. Should I solo club it, try online or maybe a combo of both? Any Advise and pointers would be greatly appreciated. I also will try to help anyone here with my past experiences if I see anything I know about. Thanks in advance, Phrase
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
New in town and ready to meet women
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
earthshyne
Senior Don Juan
If there's a college or university in your town, consider taking a course. Not only will there be some fine wimmen, they'll actually be able to think and *gasp* even carry on a conversation.
I'd avoid clubs, myself. Too much desparation there. But it's worked for others. Depends on your comfort level, I suppose, but it's just not my style.
Tried Yoga classes? They're good places to meet some flexible wimmen. Better than regular fitness places because of the male-female ratio, because more wimmen are into yoga than men, hence better odds.
A lot depends on the area. I see your location is DC (which, I'm assuming, is District of Columbia) and I don't know anything about what's inside the Beltway... but the above are maybe some places to start.
I'd avoid clubs, myself. Too much desparation there. But it's worked for others. Depends on your comfort level, I suppose, but it's just not my style.
Tried Yoga classes? They're good places to meet some flexible wimmen. Better than regular fitness places because of the male-female ratio, because more wimmen are into yoga than men, hence better odds.
A lot depends on the area. I see your location is DC (which, I'm assuming, is District of Columbia) and I don't know anything about what's inside the Beltway... but the above are maybe some places to start.
Earth thanks alot of for the advice, these actually sound like some good ideas. Another thing I was wondering.. Has anyone tried taking entry level dance lessons.. Women to men ratio should be high? I haven't ever done that before but a woman at work mentioned? Any one tried this?
Comote are you talking about the free salsa dances they have like in Glen Burnie or around that area.. Good to know another that lives in DC.. How are the women here.. If you ever have time maybe we could chat some more on topics of this area.. I'm so friggin green here in the North..
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mongoose01
Don Juan
yoga is great place to meet women. introductory courses are cheap or free.
Tyrone Biggums
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Join a gym near a major university. Take spinning and/or aerobics classes.
DoubleA
Senior Don Juan
Phrase,
Whatd up? I'm in the DC area. If you need a VA rep to tell what's going here in southside. Give me a shout out.
If you're in DC you can take Salsa lessons at LuLu's in Dc on 18th St & M. It's on Tuesday night and the cost is five bucks.
Man, there are some really cool bars that provide a nice mixture of music and conversation. In Arlington, next weekend is the Shamrock Festival. Look it up and check it out. In a month or so the Spring Bar Crawl hits and tons I mean S$#Tloads of women will be there. It's all about how you want to go with it.
Whatd up? I'm in the DC area. If you need a VA rep to tell what's going here in southside. Give me a shout out.
If you're in DC you can take Salsa lessons at LuLu's in Dc on 18th St & M. It's on Tuesday night and the cost is five bucks.
Man, there are some really cool bars that provide a nice mixture of music and conversation. In Arlington, next weekend is the Shamrock Festival. Look it up and check it out. In a month or so the Spring Bar Crawl hits and tons I mean S$#Tloads of women will be there. It's all about how you want to go with it.