"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i've been here for over a year now... with my extensive post counts and lack of better things to do I've read 90% of the posts posted in that time, as well as posts going back about 2-3years before I came... probably about 40% of them....

In this time I never found anything deemed worthy of a revelation... I mean even Pooks newest threads are nothign new, nothing that hasn't been said already.

I admit I am humble and have no solution nor answer, nor any "new" info or tips of my own. In fact the biggest revelations can be found to have been made before, mainly because there are no secrets, only answers that can be found through experience.

Thats why these tips can never be lost. Because they will always be found again.

But, now impart your wisdom oh Don Juan, impart your mind from soul. You know the ways that work, you know the things we must do. So why not try doing new things, random things, spontaneous fun things, things that can blow up in our faces...

I figure we have the DJ bootcamp, which because of my surrounding is of no use to me. So if some others are up to it, lets start something new, Bootcamp II,

You know how to get women, so how bout a bootcamp about having fun and becoming active? A bootcamp about enjoying life and living it to the fullest?

Would you guys be intrested or am I blowing smoke up my a$s?

I by no means am qualified to create a whole program by myself, but if others volunteer I think this could work.?

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~Capi...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I realize as you may after reading my post, my original post idea totally warped by the end... caught me off guard as well :p
 
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It sounds like a noble objective, but everyone has different lives and different goals so I don't think it's possible. I think it would be a better idea for everyone on this forum to send me $100 and then I will pool the money together and get everyone a cookie!
 
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I think it would be a better idea for everyone on this forum to send me $100 and then I will pool the money together and get everyone a cookie!
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how big of a cookie are we talking?
 
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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
how big of a cookie are we talking?
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Go to the mall and get one of those 3 foot round cookies for $20.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Go to the mall and get one of those 3 foot round cookies for $20.
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hmmm... so do I deduct this from the $100 and only send One on One $80?
 
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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
hmmm... so do I deduct this from the $100 and only send One on One $80?
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Nah...Go get 5 of them.
 
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Screw the cookies, go find the chick at the mall that makes those.
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wait... I'm confused... have sex with the cookies and eat the women... your sure about this one? If you say so...

*capi leaves computer and heads towards mall*
 
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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
*capi leaves computer and heads towards mall*
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Oh my god! He got off the computer! :eek: :eek:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oh my god! He got off the computer!
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Keep your applause silent. I only made it to the end of my plastic chair matt when things started to get freaky... i had to go back... I swear someone was following me... that and I found out that my skin had grafted to my computer chain.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
Keep your applause silent. I only made it to the end of my plastic chair matt when things started to get freaky... i had to go back... I swear someone was following me... that and I found out that my skin had grafted to my computer chain.
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That's disappointing, I figured by now you would have shoved your computer off of it's desk to place that chick down from the mall.

Well, can't blame a guy for trying. I was right though, you would be back ... :D
 
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well I did put her head in the fridge, but with the chair grafted to my ass by means of my own piss hardening and making be become SPINNY-CHAIR MAN... dun dun dun.... , well after that, i went out ****ed a few cookies and then ate most of her, But the damn chair on my back would only allow me to carry her head home...

besides that... there's curfew and the fact all the malls within walking distance are closed at this hour. Though I did meet a few women today.

I have to turn in...

SPINNY-CHAIR MAN SHALL BE BACK.... da da dun dunnnnnnn....[reverberating echo continually fadingly slwoly until a complete halt ]
 
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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
well I did put her head in the fridge, but with the chair grafted to my ass by means of my own piss hardening and making be become SPINNY-CHAIR MAN... dun dun dun.... , well after that, i went out ****ed a few cookies and then ate most of her, But the damn chair on my back would only allow me to carry her head home...

besides that... there's curfew and the fact all the malls within walking distance are closed at this hour. Though I did meet a few women today.

I have to turn in...

SPINNY-CHAIR MAN SHALL BE BACK.... da da dun dunnnnnnn....[reverberating echo continually fadingly slwoly until a complete halt ]
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I'd never get laid acting this way ...
 
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I'd never get laid acting this way ...
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Which is why I love this board. It gives me freedom to act stupid and say the most ignorant ****. Which keeps me sane in real life, along with keeping me....
 
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wow. this is one of the most topsy turvy ridiculous threads ever. mildly entertaining though. to see some of the suggestions people can come up with when they're bored!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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