"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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New girl at work

malliotjaune

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It's only temping, don't worry, i'm not doing the whole "office romance" thing.


Anyway, she started yesterday, i'm building my confidence up again after smashing out my front teeth in a cycle crash.

I got talking to her, asked her if she wanted lunch tomorrow. She said maybe, came up to me as we left and said "see you tomorrow"

I win!!!


let you know how it goes... and i firmly believe it was from not pushing it, just throwing it out there and showing that if she didn't plenty would!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Dude, tuck and roll when you do an endo!
 

malliotjaune

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yeah gotta learn that!


Was doing about 35mph and hit some oil round a corner.... didn't have time to get my hands out!


Heck, I've got it better than I thought if i can do that with no teeth!
 

BLUEox117

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so what happens when the teeth are knocked out, now u got basicly dentures?
cause thats about the only thing that freaks me out about the ufc, i dont wanna lose my teeth.
 

malliotjaune

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While I haven't a clue what UFC is...



Basically i got what was left of them crowned, so half of each of the two teeth is porcelein now! Bionic teeth!

Look pretty much indistinguishable from the real ones, just a tiny bit crooked (cos i moved them in my gums with imapact) and they feel a bit odd too!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BLUEox117

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Originally posted by malliotjaune
While I haven't a clue what UFC is...



Basically i got what was left of them crowned, so half of each of the two teeth is porcelein now! Bionic teeth!

Look pretty much indistinguishable from the real ones, just a tiny bit crooked (cos i moved them in my gums with imapact) and they feel a bit odd too!
UNIVERSAL FIGHTING CHAMPIONSHIPS
pride fighting
its hardcore stuff and i love to do it, sounds good then, i guess if it looks normal :)
 

malliotjaune

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Anyway.. went for lunch with this girl. Got the number.

Texted her tonight and it seemed to be going good. We're both working saturday together and all of a sudden she says "Have a good week see you saturday"

Now i'm presuming that she means she doesn't want to spek to me until she has to at work.

Am i correct?
 

whistler

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yeah, don't bother until the weekend
 

belividere

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If your not looking for the office romance thing, what are you looking for?

I dont believe in the whole waiting game with phone calls but in a situation where you are forced to see each other on a regular basis I wouldn't call her the same day.
 

malliotjaune

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'm not looking for the office romance thing in that i'm only there for another 2 weekends then I'm gone!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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