"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

New girl at work

M

malliotjaune

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2004
Messages
24
Reaction score
0
It's only temping, don't worry, i'm not doing the whole "office romance" thing.


Anyway, she started yesterday, i'm building my confidence up again after smashing out my front teeth in a cycle crash.

I got talking to her, asked her if she wanted lunch tomorrow. She said maybe, came up to me as we left and said "see you tomorrow"

I win!!!


let you know how it goes... and i firmly believe it was from not pushing it, just throwing it out there and showing that if she didn't plenty would!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

F

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Dude, tuck and roll when you do an endo!
 
M

malliotjaune

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2004
Messages
24
Reaction score
0
yeah gotta learn that!


Was doing about 35mph and hit some oil round a corner.... didn't have time to get my hands out!


Heck, I've got it better than I thought if i can do that with no teeth!
 
B

BLUEox117

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 18, 2004
Messages
294
Reaction score
0
so what happens when the teeth are knocked out, now u got basicly dentures?
cause thats about the only thing that freaks me out about the ufc, i dont wanna lose my teeth.
 
M

malliotjaune

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2004
Messages
24
Reaction score
0
While I haven't a clue what UFC is...



Basically i got what was left of them crowned, so half of each of the two teeth is porcelein now! Bionic teeth!

Look pretty much indistinguishable from the real ones, just a tiny bit crooked (cos i moved them in my gums with imapact) and they feel a bit odd too!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

B

BLUEox117

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 18, 2004
Messages
294
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by malliotjaune
While I haven't a clue what UFC is...



Basically i got what was left of them crowned, so half of each of the two teeth is porcelein now! Bionic teeth!

Look pretty much indistinguishable from the real ones, just a tiny bit crooked (cos i moved them in my gums with imapact) and they feel a bit odd too!
Click to expand...
UNIVERSAL FIGHTING CHAMPIONSHIPS
pride fighting
its hardcore stuff and i love to do it, sounds good then, i guess if it looks normal :)
 
M

malliotjaune

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2004
Messages
24
Reaction score
0
Anyway.. went for lunch with this girl. Got the number.

Texted her tonight and it seemed to be going good. We're both working saturday together and all of a sudden she says "Have a good week see you saturday"

Now i'm presuming that she means she doesn't want to spek to me until she has to at work.

Am i correct?
 
W

whistler

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2004
Messages
633
Reaction score
5
Location
New York
yeah, don't bother until the weekend
 
B

belividere

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 6, 2005
Messages
956
Reaction score
5
Age
47
If your not looking for the office romance thing, what are you looking for?

I dont believe in the whole waiting game with phone calls but in a situation where you are forced to see each other on a regular basis I wouldn't call her the same day.
 
M

malliotjaune

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2004
Messages
24
Reaction score
0
'm not looking for the office romance thing in that i'm only there for another 2 weekends then I'm gone!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top