"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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malliotjaune

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It's only temping, don't worry, i'm not doing the whole "office romance" thing.


Anyway, she started yesterday, i'm building my confidence up again after smashing out my front teeth in a cycle crash.

I got talking to her, asked her if she wanted lunch tomorrow. She said maybe, came up to me as we left and said "see you tomorrow"

I win!!!


let you know how it goes... and i firmly believe it was from not pushing it, just throwing it out there and showing that if she didn't plenty would!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Dude, tuck and roll when you do an endo!
 

malliotjaune

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yeah gotta learn that!


Was doing about 35mph and hit some oil round a corner.... didn't have time to get my hands out!


Heck, I've got it better than I thought if i can do that with no teeth!
 

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so what happens when the teeth are knocked out, now u got basicly dentures?
cause thats about the only thing that freaks me out about the ufc, i dont wanna lose my teeth.
 

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While I haven't a clue what UFC is...



Basically i got what was left of them crowned, so half of each of the two teeth is porcelein now! Bionic teeth!

Look pretty much indistinguishable from the real ones, just a tiny bit crooked (cos i moved them in my gums with imapact) and they feel a bit odd too!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BLUEox117

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Originally posted by malliotjaune
While I haven't a clue what UFC is...



Basically i got what was left of them crowned, so half of each of the two teeth is porcelein now! Bionic teeth!

Look pretty much indistinguishable from the real ones, just a tiny bit crooked (cos i moved them in my gums with imapact) and they feel a bit odd too!
UNIVERSAL FIGHTING CHAMPIONSHIPS
pride fighting
its hardcore stuff and i love to do it, sounds good then, i guess if it looks normal :)
 

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Anyway.. went for lunch with this girl. Got the number.

Texted her tonight and it seemed to be going good. We're both working saturday together and all of a sudden she says "Have a good week see you saturday"

Now i'm presuming that she means she doesn't want to spek to me until she has to at work.

Am i correct?
 

whistler

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yeah, don't bother until the weekend
 

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If your not looking for the office romance thing, what are you looking for?

I dont believe in the whole waiting game with phone calls but in a situation where you are forced to see each other on a regular basis I wouldn't call her the same day.
 

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'm not looking for the office romance thing in that i'm only there for another 2 weekends then I'm gone!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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