"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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malliotjaune

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It's only temping, don't worry, i'm not doing the whole "office romance" thing.


Anyway, she started yesterday, i'm building my confidence up again after smashing out my front teeth in a cycle crash.

I got talking to her, asked her if she wanted lunch tomorrow. She said maybe, came up to me as we left and said "see you tomorrow"

I win!!!


let you know how it goes... and i firmly believe it was from not pushing it, just throwing it out there and showing that if she didn't plenty would!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Dude, tuck and roll when you do an endo!
 

malliotjaune

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yeah gotta learn that!


Was doing about 35mph and hit some oil round a corner.... didn't have time to get my hands out!


Heck, I've got it better than I thought if i can do that with no teeth!
 

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so what happens when the teeth are knocked out, now u got basicly dentures?
cause thats about the only thing that freaks me out about the ufc, i dont wanna lose my teeth.
 

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While I haven't a clue what UFC is...



Basically i got what was left of them crowned, so half of each of the two teeth is porcelein now! Bionic teeth!

Look pretty much indistinguishable from the real ones, just a tiny bit crooked (cos i moved them in my gums with imapact) and they feel a bit odd too!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BLUEox117

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Originally posted by malliotjaune
While I haven't a clue what UFC is...



Basically i got what was left of them crowned, so half of each of the two teeth is porcelein now! Bionic teeth!

Look pretty much indistinguishable from the real ones, just a tiny bit crooked (cos i moved them in my gums with imapact) and they feel a bit odd too!
UNIVERSAL FIGHTING CHAMPIONSHIPS
pride fighting
its hardcore stuff and i love to do it, sounds good then, i guess if it looks normal :)
 

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Anyway.. went for lunch with this girl. Got the number.

Texted her tonight and it seemed to be going good. We're both working saturday together and all of a sudden she says "Have a good week see you saturday"

Now i'm presuming that she means she doesn't want to spek to me until she has to at work.

Am i correct?
 

whistler

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yeah, don't bother until the weekend
 

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If your not looking for the office romance thing, what are you looking for?

I dont believe in the whole waiting game with phone calls but in a situation where you are forced to see each other on a regular basis I wouldn't call her the same day.
 

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'm not looking for the office romance thing in that i'm only there for another 2 weekends then I'm gone!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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