PxDx
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And their is childhood abandonment & abuse issues involved.
Is this a potential BPD case?
Should i run for my life? lol
Is this a potential BPD case?
Should i run for my life? lol
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
New gf wants to be controlled & hurt...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Is she horing?
PxDx
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No horing as far as i know. She's widowed & was with the same guy for 15 years.Last Man Standing said:
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Based on your title - you need to explain!!! Why are you asking?
PxDx
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Just wondering based on her wanting to be controlled & being hurt, plus with the childhood issues. I dunno maybe i'm paranoid! lol.Last Man Standing said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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What the hell does this mean???PxDx said:
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Apparently she's into some seriously kinky stuff? I'd drop her off at a shrink and get outta dodge. Its not that she can't be good for you, its just that you can find better.
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Run for your life.
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Probably not a BPD case.
More like a Stockholm Syndrome case.
Basically that is a normal woman being put in an abusive situation and gradually being worn down to accept it and even begin to imagine small acts of kindness being shown by their abuser. They fall in love with the abuser because of the imagined acts of kindness shown.
Yeah though dude run away.
More like a Stockholm Syndrome case.
Basically that is a normal woman being put in an abusive situation and gradually being worn down to accept it and even begin to imagine small acts of kindness being shown by their abuser. They fall in love with the abuser because of the imagined acts of kindness shown.
Yeah though dude run away.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Does she want you to be abusive all the time or just in bed?
Randallpink83
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kick her in the teeth and fvck her ass. idk, sounded like a good idea to me. yeah dude I wouldnt take this girl very seriously. Shes has issues... obviously.
comic_relief
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I would say that it can't *hurt* to give it a try, but be wary of red flags and if she shows ANY red flags at all, to run for the fvcken hills quick.
I dated a girl like this, and believe me. They are a pain in the @$$.
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I dated a girl like this, and believe me. They are a pain in the @$$.
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I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
As a man you should be somewhat controlling and dominate. But, what do you exactly mean? She likes to be beaten like a little red headed step child?? :crackup: Or roughed around during sex?
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
There's an Andrew Dice Clay line,
"I was in bed with this b!tch, and she moans, 'give me 12 inches and hurt me.' So I fvcked her twice and punched her in the face!"
I like crazy chicks. They are good in bed. Sane women bore me. Crazy chick sex is addictive. But I guess you have to be into that sort of thing.
"I was in bed with this b!tch, and she moans, 'give me 12 inches and hurt me.' So I fvcked her twice and punched her in the face!"
I like crazy chicks. They are good in bed. Sane women bore me. Crazy chick sex is addictive. But I guess you have to be into that sort of thing.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.