PxDx
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And their is childhood abandonment & abuse issues involved.
Is this a potential BPD case?
Should i run for my life? lol
Is this a potential BPD case?
Should i run for my life? lol
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
New gf wants to be controlled & hurt...
- Thread starter PxDx
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Is she horing?
PxDx
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No horing as far as i know. She's widowed & was with the same guy for 15 years.Last Man Standing said:
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Based on your title - you need to explain!!! Why are you asking?
PxDx
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Just wondering based on her wanting to be controlled & being hurt, plus with the childhood issues. I dunno maybe i'm paranoid! lol.Last Man Standing said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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What the hell does this mean???PxDx said:
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Apparently she's into some seriously kinky stuff? I'd drop her off at a shrink and get outta dodge. Its not that she can't be good for you, its just that you can find better.
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Run for your life.
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Probably not a BPD case.
More like a Stockholm Syndrome case.
Basically that is a normal woman being put in an abusive situation and gradually being worn down to accept it and even begin to imagine small acts of kindness being shown by their abuser. They fall in love with the abuser because of the imagined acts of kindness shown.
Yeah though dude run away.
More like a Stockholm Syndrome case.
Basically that is a normal woman being put in an abusive situation and gradually being worn down to accept it and even begin to imagine small acts of kindness being shown by their abuser. They fall in love with the abuser because of the imagined acts of kindness shown.
Yeah though dude run away.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Does she want you to be abusive all the time or just in bed?
Randallpink83
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kick her in the teeth and fvck her ass. idk, sounded like a good idea to me. yeah dude I wouldnt take this girl very seriously. Shes has issues... obviously.
comic_relief
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I would say that it can't *hurt* to give it a try, but be wary of red flags and if she shows ANY red flags at all, to run for the fvcken hills quick.
I dated a girl like this, and believe me. They are a pain in the @$$.
comic_relief
I dated a girl like this, and believe me. They are a pain in the @$$.
comic_relief
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
As a man you should be somewhat controlling and dominate. But, what do you exactly mean? She likes to be beaten like a little red headed step child?? :crackup: Or roughed around during sex?
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
There's an Andrew Dice Clay line,
"I was in bed with this b!tch, and she moans, 'give me 12 inches and hurt me.' So I fvcked her twice and punched her in the face!"
I like crazy chicks. They are good in bed. Sane women bore me. Crazy chick sex is addictive. But I guess you have to be into that sort of thing.
"I was in bed with this b!tch, and she moans, 'give me 12 inches and hurt me.' So I fvcked her twice and punched her in the face!"
I like crazy chicks. They are good in bed. Sane women bore me. Crazy chick sex is addictive. But I guess you have to be into that sort of thing.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.