"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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New gf wants to be controlled & hurt...

PxDx

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And their is childhood abandonment & abuse issues involved.

Is this a potential BPD case?

Should i run for my life? lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is she horing?
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Is she horing?
No horing as far as i know. She's widowed & was with the same guy for 15 years.
 
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Based on your title - you need to explain!!! Why are you asking?
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Based on your title - you need to explain!!! Why are you asking?
Just wondering based on her wanting to be controlled & being hurt, plus with the childhood issues. I dunno maybe i'm paranoid! lol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PxDx said:
Just wondering based on her wanting to be controlled & being hurt, plus with the childhood issues. I dunno maybe i'm paranoid! lol.
What the hell does this mean???
 

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Apparently she's into some seriously kinky stuff? I'd drop her off at a shrink and get outta dodge. Its not that she can't be good for you, its just that you can find better.
 

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RUN FOR THE HILLS, CHANGE YOUR NAME AND IDENTITY, MOVE TO SOUTH AMERICA, AND BECOME A FARMER.

That should give you a decent head start.
 

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Probably not a BPD case.

More like a Stockholm Syndrome case.

Basically that is a normal woman being put in an abusive situation and gradually being worn down to accept it and even begin to imagine small acts of kindness being shown by their abuser. They fall in love with the abuser because of the imagined acts of kindness shown.

Yeah though dude run away.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Does she want you to be abusive all the time or just in bed?
 

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kick her in the teeth and fvck her ass. idk, sounded like a good idea to me. yeah dude I wouldnt take this girl very seriously. Shes has issues... obviously.
 

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I would say that it can't *hurt* to give it a try, but be wary of red flags and if she shows ANY red flags at all, to run for the fvcken hills quick.

I dated a girl like this, and believe me. They are a pain in the @$$.

comic_relief
 

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As a man you should be somewhat controlling and dominate. But, what do you exactly mean? She likes to be beaten like a little red headed step child?? :crackup: Or roughed around during sex?
 

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There's an Andrew Dice Clay line,
"I was in bed with this b!tch, and she moans, 'give me 12 inches and hurt me.' So I fvcked her twice and punched her in the face!"

I like crazy chicks. They are good in bed. Sane women bore me. Crazy chick sex is addictive. But I guess you have to be into that sort of thing.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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