PxDx
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And their is childhood abandonment & abuse issues involved.
Is this a potential BPD case?
Should i run for my life? lol
Is this a potential BPD case?
Should i run for my life? lol
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
New gf wants to be controlled & hurt...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Is she horing?
PxDx
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No horing as far as i know. She's widowed & was with the same guy for 15 years.Last Man Standing said:
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Based on your title - you need to explain!!! Why are you asking?
PxDx
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Just wondering based on her wanting to be controlled & being hurt, plus with the childhood issues. I dunno maybe i'm paranoid! lol.Last Man Standing said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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What the hell does this mean???PxDx said:
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Apparently she's into some seriously kinky stuff? I'd drop her off at a shrink and get outta dodge. Its not that she can't be good for you, its just that you can find better.
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Run for your life.
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Probably not a BPD case.
More like a Stockholm Syndrome case.
Basically that is a normal woman being put in an abusive situation and gradually being worn down to accept it and even begin to imagine small acts of kindness being shown by their abuser. They fall in love with the abuser because of the imagined acts of kindness shown.
Yeah though dude run away.
More like a Stockholm Syndrome case.
Basically that is a normal woman being put in an abusive situation and gradually being worn down to accept it and even begin to imagine small acts of kindness being shown by their abuser. They fall in love with the abuser because of the imagined acts of kindness shown.
Yeah though dude run away.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Does she want you to be abusive all the time or just in bed?
Randallpink83
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kick her in the teeth and fvck her ass. idk, sounded like a good idea to me. yeah dude I wouldnt take this girl very seriously. Shes has issues... obviously.
comic_relief
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I would say that it can't *hurt* to give it a try, but be wary of red flags and if she shows ANY red flags at all, to run for the fvcken hills quick.
I dated a girl like this, and believe me. They are a pain in the @$$.
comic_relief
I dated a girl like this, and believe me. They are a pain in the @$$.
comic_relief
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
As a man you should be somewhat controlling and dominate. But, what do you exactly mean? She likes to be beaten like a little red headed step child?? :crackup: Or roughed around during sex?
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
There's an Andrew Dice Clay line,
"I was in bed with this b!tch, and she moans, 'give me 12 inches and hurt me.' So I fvcked her twice and punched her in the face!"
I like crazy chicks. They are good in bed. Sane women bore me. Crazy chick sex is addictive. But I guess you have to be into that sort of thing.
"I was in bed with this b!tch, and she moans, 'give me 12 inches and hurt me.' So I fvcked her twice and punched her in the face!"
I like crazy chicks. They are good in bed. Sane women bore me. Crazy chick sex is addictive. But I guess you have to be into that sort of thing.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.