"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lizardking82

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I was listening to AMS one of his vids as he said "Whatever is my bread and butter, the thing that makes most of my income, I prioritize it. Nothing gets done before that. No women, no secondary jobs. Everyday, every facking day". Love it.

I am going out on a picnic with my girlfriend right now cause I promised her since last week, gonna be about 3 hours, but this ain't happening for sure from now. First, all my things done. Then everything else. Wanted to share this here, think a lot of guys here would benefit from setting this mindset starting today.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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@lizardking82 his articles and advice is great.. but some things are far fetched. "A true alpha male bangs 100 girls a year" yeah sure.. no-one on here who I consider true "alpha" males would bang 100 girls a year I can also guarantee that some people on here would do better than him. Different horses for different courses.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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@lizardking82 his articles and advice is great.. but some things are far fetched. "A true alpha male bangs 100 girls a year" yeah sure.. no-one on here who I consider true "alpha" males would bang 100 girls a year I can also guarantee that some people on here would do better than him. Different horses for different courses.
I agree... if you are banging 100 chicks a year, then THAT is your focus, not your actual life. The only way any man could pull this off is being independently wealthy, no other obligations, and who is myopically focused on his numbers count which would make you a worthless human being.
 

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While I dont think 100 women a year is realistic due to time and other priorities and goals, I do think 30-40 is a piece of cake and can be done with minimal effort if you have the looks, charisma, personality, masculine frame and abundance mindset.

I even think that 30+ is easily obtainable while still having a 3 or 4 chick rotation......with minimal effort.
 

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AMS touting 100 females a year if you want to be considered 'alpha' feels like incredible male shaming to me.

The reality is that the majority of men will never achieve this but that same majority of men WILL feel inferior because of that statement.

How is that even good for the psyche?
 

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AMS touting 100 females a year if you want to be considered 'alpha' feels like incredible male shaming to me.

The reality is that the majority of men will never achieve this but that same majority of men WILL feel inferior because of that statement.

How is that even good for the psyche?
I don't listen to his number limits and suggestions. Never really cared about that, but I think one can profit if you know what to listen to.
 

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Who puts their job over a woman?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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As I said. His advice is great but I can tell you right now that his numbers are extremely far fetched. He works 2 jobs. A PT during the day and a bouncer at night. There is no f*****g way he would bang 100 girls a year. He also stated that a man is born alpha that's a load of crock because he also stated he was a beta male once.. ok so that proves he's not alpha then? I have a good friend like him and he swears up and down he's alpha and I'm not. Ok and he use to send girls poems and flowers which I've never done. You can see the big picture now. When a man has a huge ego like my friend you're definitely not alpha in my book.
 

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LMFAO! Grown assed man can't even speak English:

"You should stay just the way you izzz...."


I was listening to AMS one of his vids as he said "Whatever is my bread and butter, the thing that makes most of my income, I prioritize it. Nothing gets done before that. No women, no secondary jobs. Everyday, every facking day". Love it.

I am going out on a picnic with my girlfriend right now cause I promised her since last week, gonna be about 3 hours, but this ain't happening for sure from now. First, all my things done. Then everything else. Wanted to share this here, think a lot of guys here would benefit from setting this mindset starting today.
You won't go to picnics because you watched a youtube video. How does that even make sense?
 
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How do you mean that?
Talking about the things you do that make you the most money...for 85% of people that is their job...unless I misunderstood what you were saying.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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