"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
nervous women?
- Thread starter mister
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
My personal recommendations:
Pook - Be a man!
Pook - Kill That Desperation!
(And, for an awesome read)
Weapons of Mass Seduction by Señor Fingers
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
h2o
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if she's that uncomfortable, i'm guessing you probably are pretty nervous too, and she can sense it too.Originally posted by mister
what does it mean when a woman becomes extremely nervous or uncomfortable when you flirt with her or try to hit on her?
the more relaxed/casual/chill/cool you are, the better chance you have of her being relaxed and comfortable around you.
there are times girls will be slightly uncomfortable because they are shy...but if every girl you approach is freaking out...you need to relax yourself a bit.
h2o
Banned
in that case, i would have no idea if it means she has high or low interest.Originally posted by mister
not everygirl I approach freaks out. This is actually the first time this happens to me buddy. I have had girls say no to me before but I have never seen any girl be that uncomfortable around just because I am flirting with her. This is why I am wondering what's going on. Does mean low interest or high interest?
if it doesn't happen often...
don't worry about it then, it's her problem, not yours. i run into this once in a while too...don't think about it too much...she's just shy
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