Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
nervous women?
- Thread starter mister
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
My personal recommendations:
Pook - Be a man!
Pook - Kill That Desperation!
(And, for an awesome read)
Weapons of Mass Seduction by Señor Fingers
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
h2o
Banned
if she's that uncomfortable, i'm guessing you probably are pretty nervous too, and she can sense it too.Originally posted by mister
what does it mean when a woman becomes extremely nervous or uncomfortable when you flirt with her or try to hit on her?
the more relaxed/casual/chill/cool you are, the better chance you have of her being relaxed and comfortable around you.
there are times girls will be slightly uncomfortable because they are shy...but if every girl you approach is freaking out...you need to relax yourself a bit.
h2o
Banned
in that case, i would have no idea if it means she has high or low interest.Originally posted by mister
not everygirl I approach freaks out. This is actually the first time this happens to me buddy. I have had girls say no to me before but I have never seen any girl be that uncomfortable around just because I am flirting with her. This is why I am wondering what's going on. Does mean low interest or high interest?
if it doesn't happen often...
don't worry about it then, it's her problem, not yours. i run into this once in a while too...don't think about it too much...she's just shy
Black_Italian
Banned
- Joined
- May 9, 2004
- Messages
- 1,032
- Reaction score
- 0
- Age
- 40