"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
nervous women?
- Thread starter mister
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
My personal recommendations:
Pook - Be a man!
Pook - Kill That Desperation!
(And, for an awesome read)
Weapons of Mass Seduction by Señor Fingers
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
h2o
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if she's that uncomfortable, i'm guessing you probably are pretty nervous too, and she can sense it too.Originally posted by mister
what does it mean when a woman becomes extremely nervous or uncomfortable when you flirt with her or try to hit on her?
the more relaxed/casual/chill/cool you are, the better chance you have of her being relaxed and comfortable around you.
there are times girls will be slightly uncomfortable because they are shy...but if every girl you approach is freaking out...you need to relax yourself a bit.
h2o
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in that case, i would have no idea if it means she has high or low interest.Originally posted by mister
not everygirl I approach freaks out. This is actually the first time this happens to me buddy. I have had girls say no to me before but I have never seen any girl be that uncomfortable around just because I am flirting with her. This is why I am wondering what's going on. Does mean low interest or high interest?
if it doesn't happen often...
don't worry about it then, it's her problem, not yours. i run into this once in a while too...don't think about it too much...she's just shy
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